We are burying my grandmother today and I've got a feeling the next couple months will be a T total schittshow with 3 siblings who mostly don't get along.
One thing I've learned and I'm not even having to deal with it is in your or your parents will, have things detailed and spelled out. Not, split equally X number of ways. I'll be surprised if the entire estate isn't sold and a judge splits the money 3 ways before it's all said and done simply because my grandparents didn't wanna chance hurting somebody's feelings by saying you get this, you get this and you get this. So on and so forth.