Gotta admit I've laughed a lot reading this thread, but come on guys. I think he's had enough.
I find it commendable that Jakethesnake took a big risk in the name of love. Even if it didn't work out, the heartbreak he's feeling now is better than wondering "what if" for the rest of his life. America rose to greatness by being a country of risk takers. Now Americans play it safe and take some pills to numb theirself from their meaningless life. The American spirit is still strong in this one.
Feel free to PM if you want to talk Jakethesnake. I promise I'll keep the conversation private and won't judge you.