Wow I'm blown away at the response! Thanks everyone for the help. I really appreciate it and will use it. So thanks again.

I been busy just now got time to read.

I forgot to mention, she has kids and she is only off 3 days a week. She only has time to see me on her off days. If I arrived sooner, I'd have to wait till she was off work and she would be tired and neglecting her kids. I was just gonna see her on her off day. I don't want the kids seeing me until we know it will last. We are pretty sure everything will last but there isn't any need in the kids being involved until its a have to case. We will see what happens. I wouldn't meet a girl in hazel green buy I'd drive across the country just to sit with this one. Life is really strange 😅.