Me and my wife divorced after 5 years, 2 kids. They went by my W2 for child support and it was 1870.00 a month for 2 kids. We were divorced for 2 years and we reconciled and decided to get remarried. It took me 3 years after being remarried to get the child support order dropped with the use of a lawyer. I can tell you this and that is to not get DHR involved because they are ruthless and it takes a bunch of money and time to change what they have in place. We have now been married a total of 19 years minus the 2
This is the truth, if you are back any child support when DHR gets their hands on it, you are screwed. Lose your job? DHR don't care, get behind and not only do they lay the hammer (rightfully so due to the deadbeat dads in this state), they charge interest on backed support and it goes to the receiver, surprisingly, not the state.
What makes the system really frustrating is when you have a "child support farm" as a mother that has 3+ kids with 3+ daddys and collects a check on all their azzes, including alimony. Not to mention government benefits, WIC, EBT, free education, free healthcare and free counsel.
System is totally rurn't and needs reform. Probably needs reform more than most government agencies in the south for sure.
Again, goodluck to you, take the gloves off and get ready for the fight of your life
