Goodluck! I've been screwed for 13 years. A lot of money went down the drain. He's almost at the age to see thru his mother's BS so it's working itself out. Best of luck to you, it's a long, stressful grind. Just keep your kiddos first in all your decisions and one day when they are older they will see your sacrifice.
this and get the best you can afford. And don’t play nice.