I have two daughters. One is a a first year teacher and will be getting married in December. The other is in her first year of college..
I would say show them the way they are supposed to be treated, by setting a good example at home. Don't forget to say you are sorry when you mess up....... And you will. Because all men do, its human nature. We are not wired the same way.
Lots of good advice on the thread.