I don't mind a kid leaving, it happens, coaches leave, they want playing time, etc. I just don't get letting them go on a bowl trip and play in the game if they have given their intent to get into the portal. Let another player have that spot on the field and show what he can do, or let a player that is deserving get to take a trip with the team.

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