If, as a seller, I inflate my price by 3% to cover the Aldeer fee, and dont say anything about it, everyone is ok.
But, if I lay out that I would like the buyer to pay 3% on the front end and fly disclose what I am doing, people dont like it?

Odd.

in the real world it works like this.

I need a $100 for an item. I know that 3% is going to be added to my end of the transaction. So I price the item @ $125. Some.savy buyer comes thru and says I'll give you 85. I respond that the lowest I can go is 115, to which I get a ok...I can do 110. I agree.

Congratulations non disclosure just added 10% to the price for the buyer.

The post came down but I am assuming based on context that it was 22 ammo for a higher than normal price with the seller paying the fee.

I read the rule. I like that the fee can be openly negotiated.

The guy is new and probably uncomfortable with how to pay the 3% and figured that an experience person would be able to do that better.

Happy Easter.