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Idk exactly what the Bible says. One thing I know is what my grandmother with dementia will loudly say in public when she sees an interracial couple. It’s enough to make Clayton Bigsby blush.
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And deer season ain't even over yet. We'll have a hangin' by Memorial weekend! 
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Idk exactly what the Bible says. One thing I know is what my grandmother with dementia will loudly say in public when she sees an interracial couple. It’s enough to make Clayton Bigsby blush. My grandmother got a flat tire in union springs Alabama and called for help,... Told her I would come right away but would take me awhile to get there. Asked if there were any people around who could help... Her response was “no people; just ______’s”
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clickI bet op had this scene rolling around in his head all day
How you do anything is how you do everything
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I have a beautiful half black niece (in-law) that is a wonderful person and very much loved by our family. That being said, the amount of drug abuse, illegitimate births, lack of education, violate behavior and lawlessness tolerated in black neighborhoods frightens me. Anybody immersed in that culture (black or white), I want nothing to do with I have a beautiful half black niece as well, she lived with us for about 6yrs. I very highly recommended she find a white husband, same as I would my own daughter, for the same reasons you stated above. She married another mixed fellow who was raised white. I have absolutely no problem with him, I think she did well.
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Idk exactly what the Bible says. One thing I know is what my grandmother with dementia will loudly say in public when she sees an interracial couple. It’s enough to make Clayton Bigsby blush. My grandmother got a flat tire in union springs Alabama and called for help,... Told her I would come right away but would take me awhile to get there. Asked if there were any people around who could help... Her response was “no people; just ______’s” I think it’s just a generational thing. My best friends daddy was a big time farmer years ago and only worked black folks. And the majority of them lived on his land and their families grew up together and have been friends for generations. But when he referred to them he would call them —-gras but not in a derogatory way to him.
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God Bless America!
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50% of white girls date black guys.
20% think they are gay.
30% date white guys.
Sorry but that’s where we are.
At least in Alabaster, Al. I would say that those stats are dead on. I’d bet that 49% of the 50% are single mothers. Unfortunately. All the above probably true but still hard to believe.
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I've really never understood the hate against interracial marriages. I would think you would want your kid/kids to marry some one who cares about them and who will take care of them. I could understand why you wouldn't have wanted your kid to marry a black person back when they didn't have as many rights as white people and were judged by the color of their skin, so things like finding a good job and affording a house were difficult.
But now a days, Black men and women have the same rights as white people so none of that should be an issue. So the only reason I could think a person wouldn't want their kids to marry a black person is 1. They don't find black people attractive, and they want their kids to marry some one who meets their standards of beauty. 2. They do not like the way mix kids look and do not want ugly grand kids. 3. anything other than the first 2 things I stated have to do with prejudice feelings or thoughts. There is not one person on this earth that does not have some kind of prejudice! It human nature! You are absolutely right. I have many prejudice thoughts. When you act upon a prejudice thought it becomes racism. If you cut off your kids because you don’t want a black person in your family that’s racist. Do I have prejudice thoughts about black people and other races? Absolutely do I hold every person I meet to those prejudice thoughts? Absolutely not, I judge a man by his character, not by the color of his skin. Shocker... another hypocrite on Aldeer.... I’m racist and going to hell because I don’t want my white daughters dating a black boy... Seems that’s a lot of y’all thoughts. 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️
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And for the record I ain’t got nothing against what other folks or there kids do in there house, my thoughts are for me and my own. Have friends with interracial and gay kids, but i don’t judge the parents for it, there kids is who made the final choice..
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Just glad i only have boys 🤗
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Just glad i only have boys 🤗 Same for me! Very, very rare to see an attractive black female around here.
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Just glad i only have boys 🤗 Same for me! Very, very rare to see an attractive black female around here. \Would you rather see ugly ones hanging around?
Lord, please help us get our nation straightened out.
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I've really never understood the hate against interracial marriages. I would think you would want your kid/kids to marry some one who cares about them and who will take care of them. I could understand why you wouldn't have wanted your kid to marry a black person back when they didn't have as many rights as white people and were judged by the color of their skin, so things like finding a good job and affording a house were difficult.
But now a days, Black men and women have the same rights as white people so none of that should be an issue. So the only reason I could think a person wouldn't want their kids to marry a black person is 1. They don't find black people attractive, and they want their kids to marry some one who meets their standards of beauty. 2. They do not like the way mix kids look and do not want ugly grand kids. 3. anything other than the first 2 things I stated have to do with prejudice feelings or thoughts. There is not one person on this earth that does not have some kind of prejudice! It human nature! You are absolutely right. I have many prejudice thoughts. When you act upon a prejudice thought it becomes racism. If you cut off your kids because you don’t want a black person in your family that’s racist. Do I have prejudice thoughts about black people and other races? Absolutely do I hold every person I meet to those prejudice thoughts? Absolutely not, I judge a man by his character, not by the color of his skin. Shocker... another hypocrite on Aldeer.... I’m racist and going to hell because I don’t want my white daughters dating a black boy... Seems that’s a lot of y’all thoughts. 🤷🏿♂️🤷🏿♂️ How exactly am I a hypocrite? I also never said you were going to hell. Do I think you have hate in your heart? Yes I do. Do I think you are going to Hell? No. For one who am I to make that decision, second I know that I have sinned just as you have. You are putting words in my mouth. I do pray that one day you wake up and not judge a man by the color of his skin.
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It's not about judging but about personal preference and beliefs.
What one does is their business. Doesn't mean I agree with it though.
One of my relatives kids married a black guy and they asked me what
I thought about it. I told them what I thought, but that it also didn't really
matter what I thought, they were going to do it anyway.
So now I'm a "racist",,,whatever.
Last time I checked, this is still the U.S. where I can have my own beliefs.
A lot of this is reminiscent of the LGBTQ stuff, as in I should accept it or
else I'm a Bigot/racist. Sound familiar?
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When you think a thought but judge someone for saying that same thought.....
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“You are absolutely right. I have many prejudice thoughts. When you act upon a prejudice thought it becomes racism”
To me that’s being a hypocrite, I’m just a outspoken type of person, say what comes to mind, which isn’t always the best idea. But! Folks always knows where they stand with me, unlike shady ass punks that think thoughts but don’t say them.
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When you think a thought but judge someone for saying that same thought.....
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“You are absolutely right. I have many prejudice thoughts. When you act upon a prejudice thought it becomes racism”
To me that’s being a hypocrite, I’m just a outspoken type of person, say what comes to mind, which isn’t always the best idea. But! Folks always knows where they stand with me, unlike shady ass punks that think thoughts but don’t say them. Shouldn't you be milking a bull right now or something?
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When you think a thought but judge someone for saying that same thought.....
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“You are absolutely right. I have many prejudice thoughts. When you act upon a prejudice thought it becomes racism”
To me that’s being a hypocrite, I’m just a outspoken type of person, say what comes to mind, which isn’t always the best idea. But! Folks always knows where they stand with me, unlike shady ass punks that think thoughts but don’t say them. Ok let’s try this again. Do I have prejudice thoughts? Yes I do. Have I been known to say them out loud with my friends? Yes I have. Me saying that I don’t have any prejudice thoughts would have made me a hypocrite. Now let’s get back to what I am talking about. Would I not hang out with a certain group of people or not help a certain person just because of my prejudice thoughts? No, because I realize every individual person is different and when we see a person of a certain color or race doing things we don’t agree with we as humans tend to categorize everyone in that race as being that way. It’s not the case though. So yes. If you have a person who has the same beliefs as you, is a good Christian, votes the same way you do, has all the same hobbies you do, loves and cares for your daughter unconditionally, But you say “hey you are not allowed to date that guy because his skin tone is a touch to dark” that’s racist. And let’s be clear, I wouldn’t want my kids dating a low-life, no job having, drug selling, dead beat either. But I would teach my kids to avoid people like that and not avoid people of a certain color. Because you have a lot of shitty white trash people as well. I hope this clears up what I am trying to say. And I NEVER said you were going to hell And as stated earlier I will continue to pray for you.
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It's not about judging but about personal preference and beliefs.
What one does is their business. Doesn't mean I agree with it though.
One of my relatives kids married a black guy and they asked me what
I thought about it. I told them what I thought, but that it also didn't really
matter what I thought, they were going to do it anyway.
So now I'm a "racist",,,whatever.
Last time I checked, this is still the U.S. where I can have my own beliefs.
A lot of this is reminiscent of the LGBTQ stuff, as in I should accept it or
else I'm a Bigot/racist. Sound familiar? ^^^^ Yes....
"I'm not near as critical about how big they are as I once was. Smiles are more important now! We will grow more deer."
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A lot of this is reminiscent of the LGBTQ stuff, as in I should accept it or
else I'm a Bigot/racist. Sound familiar?
But one of the topics is a sin and the other one isn't.
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