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I want my daughter to marry a man with a heart for God. I'd rather she marry a black man who truly has a heart for the Lord than a white man that doesn't know Christ. Because of the ridicule and racism she'd encounter I hope she finds a person of her own race with those qualities but I'm raising her to look at a person's character before all else.
Because of the mistakes I've seen others make, in regards to being adamant about race staying with race, and the results of the hardline stance they've taken, I've chosen never to speak to my daughter about it. I've watched too many girls with fathers who've preached at them about race rebel and date black men exclusively. I'm convinced that's a result of the father's insistence and the daughter's knowing it's the thing that will sting the most when they decide to rebel. So far, my daughter has figured it out on her own and shown good judgement. She's 14 and likes boys just fine but isn't nearly as boy crazy as most girls her age. I believe that's because she's been allowed to make up her own mind about things , in that regard, and we haven't made it a taboo subject. She also understands her boundaries and knows that the trust she has from her mother and I is something she's earned over a lifetime and if she starts making irresponsible choices she loses that trust she's earned.
I believe the best way to insure your daughter's make good choices is to model the things you want her to look for in a man and to lead them in a Godly manner. If you want to insure they rebel, rule with an iron fist and preach at them about race and they'll do exactly opposite of what you want when they get the first chance. Girls with daddy issues are a dime a dozen and there are just as many that got those issues from an overbearing father as there are from absent fathers. Yes.
"I'm not near as critical about how big they are as I once was. Smiles are more important now! We will grow more deer."
Jimmy G.
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I want my kids to grow up and marry someone (of the opposite sex) that is a good Christian person who treats them the way they should be treated. The race of the person isn't really of any concern.
Isaiah 5:20
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Whites go with whites.
Blacks go with blacks.
Yellow go with yellows.
Reds go with reds.
Etc.
I’ve got some very good black friends BUT.....I don’t want my kids dating/marrying blacks/browns/yellow/etc.
If that’s considered racist, we’ll then I’m a racist.
I think there’s actually a bible verse that says God separated the races but I don’t recall the scripture.
Yep. Call me whatever you like. I really don't care.
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Whites go with whites.
Blacks go with blacks.
Yellow go with yellows.
Reds go with reds.
Etc.
I’ve got some very good black friends BUT.....I don’t want my kids dating/marrying blacks/browns/yellow/etc.
If that’s considered racist, we’ll then I’m a racist.
I think there’s actually a bible verse that says God separated the races but I don’t recall the scripture.
Yep. Call me whatever you like. I really don't care. If you believe the Bible and trace mankind’s lineage back far enough I think that you will find that there is only one race. The Bible tells us that Moses married an Ethiopian woman and was criticized by Aaron and his sister for it, personally I believe she was black. Sin seperated mankind and what you find in the book of acts is that the Gospel brings us back as one. IMO i don’t believe that God sees the outward appearance of a man but rather looks at the heart. I have two daughters, 21 & 19, and I hope that I would look on their choices for a mate the same way.
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I have explained to both of my girls that they can be friends with em, but can’t date em. It ain’t happening, and for those that has a good black guy in the family that’s great, I’m proud for y’all, but 90% of the black guys I know that wanna date a white girl and straight up thugs, sorry pos, government babies. Yalls little princess gonna supporting some pandas and they daddy when it’s said and done. Glad them few worked out for y’all.
Red birds stick with red birds, blue birds stick with blue birds
How I was told coming up, how my kids are told. And maybe I’m wrong, but both races can be open to things for a certain time frame, but sometime or another they’ll go back to there roots.
I’ll always love my kids, but that don’t mean I’ll always support em. And with that said, my house my rules! No black boys, and no punk ass, white trash white boys neither.
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I have explained to both of my girls that they can be friends with em, but can’t date em. It ain’t happening, and for those that has a good black guy in the family that’s great, I’m proud for y’all, but 90% of the black guys I know that wanna date a white girl and straight up thugs, sorry pos, government babies. Yalls little princess gonna supporting some pandas and they daddy when it’s said and done. Glad them few worked out for y’all.
Red birds stick with red birds, blue birds stick with blue birds
How I was told coming up, how my kids are told. And maybe I’m wrong, but both races can be open to things for a certain time frame, but sometime or another they’ll go back to there roots.
I’ll always love my kids, but that don’t mean I’ll always support em. And with that said, my house my rules! No black boys, and no punk ass, white trash white boys neither. What bothers me is the fact that this line of thinking is not normal? Really? Doesn't mean you are a racist. Might mean you want the best for your daughters. Some days I get up and wonder what world I just got up in.
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I don’t think most white and black people agree with you, honestly. This ^^
Whoever is happy will make others happy too. Anne Frank
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I have a 10yo and a 6yo. I’ve taught them, and continue to reinforce, that you judge people based on their CHARACTER and not skin color. My youngest has a best friend in school that’s black. Her parents are FANTASTIC people. I went to high school in the 90s and race relations were 100% better than they are today. Obama stirred up more racial chit in 8 years than I thought was possible.
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Whites go with whites.
Blacks go with blacks.
Yellow go with yellows.
Reds go with reds.
Etc.
I’ve got some very good black friends BUT.....I don’t want my kids dating/marrying blacks/browns/yellow/etc.
If that’s considered racist, we’ll then I’m a racist.
I think there’s actually a bible verse that says God separated the races but I don’t recall the scripture.
Yep. Call me whatever you like. I really don't care. If you believe the Bible and trace mankind’s lineage back far enough I think that you will find that there is only one race. The Bible tells us that Moses married an Ethiopian woman and was criticized by Aaron and his sister for it, personally I believe she was black. Aaron and Miriam criticized Moses, and God got mad at them for doing so. Any verses that I've found that may SEEM like they are anti-interracial marriage are referring to people's beliefs, not their race (example: God's people weren't allowed to marry canaanites, because they worshipped idols). Also, None of those verses would apply to us anyway, we are a different race than the Israelites. Edit to my edit: I know the Old Testament still applies, I just was making a point about race.
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If one of my blonde haired, blue eyed, fair skinned Irish boys came home with a 23 year old Halle Berry, he’d get an “atta boy!” from Dad.
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Whites go with whites.
Blacks go with blacks.
Yellow go with yellows.
Reds go with reds.
Etc.
I’ve got some very good black friends BUT.....I don’t want my kids dating/marrying blacks/browns/yellow/etc.
If that’s considered racist, we’ll then I’m a racist.
I think there’s actually a bible verse that says God separated the races but I don’t recall the scripture.
I'm right there with you. It's how I was brought up and how I brought mine up. I suspect it's how my grandchildren will be brought up. That will be their parents choice though. They will know my opinion, but that's as far as that will go.
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I have explained to both of my girls that they can be friends with em, but can’t date em. It ain’t happening, and for those that has a good black guy in the family that’s great, I’m proud for y’all, but 90% of the black guys I know that wanna date a white girl and straight up thugs, sorry pos, government babies. Yalls little princess gonna supporting some pandas and they daddy when it’s said and done. Glad them few worked out for y’all.
Red birds stick with red birds, blue birds stick with blue birds
How I was told coming up, how my kids are told. And maybe I’m wrong, but both races can be open to things for a certain time frame, but sometime or another they’ll go back to there roots.
I’ll always love my kids, but that don’t mean I’ll always support em. And with that said, my house my rules! No black boys, and no punk ass, white trash white boys neither. What bothers me is the fact that this line of thinking is not normal? Really? Doesn't mean you are a racist. Might mean you want the best for your daughters. Some days I get up and wonder what world I just got up in. That’s right
Would walk over a naked woman to get to a gobblin turkey!
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I have explained to both of my girls that they can be friends with em, but can’t date em. It ain’t happening, and for those that has a good black guy in the family that’s great, I’m proud for y’all, but 90% of the black guys I know that wanna date a white girl and straight up thugs, sorry pos, government babies. Yalls little princess gonna supporting some pandas and they daddy when it’s said and done. Glad them few worked out for y’all.
Red birds stick with red birds, blue birds stick with blue birds
How I was told coming up, how my kids are told. And maybe I’m wrong, but both races can be open to things for a certain time frame, but sometime or another they’ll go back to there roots.
I’ll always love my kids, but that don’t mean I’ll always support em. And with that said, my house my rules! No black boys, and no punk ass, white trash white boys neither. What bothers me is the fact that this line of thinking is not normal? Really? Doesn't mean you are a racist. Might mean you want the best for your daughters. Some days I get up and wonder what world I just got up in. Why does it bother you? What is the problem with it?
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DW summed it up same way ive taught my kids.
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Puts sugar in his cornbread!
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I work in a factory where it’s about 50/50. Most of my black friends here have a wife and a girlfriend or two. It’s just a common thing with them. Most of my white friends don’t. There are some huge social issues I have with mixed marriage. With that being said, I point out just as many flaws with white trash too when talking with my kids.
I just simply tell my kids that whatever decision you make will determine what kind of life you have, easy/good or hard. Talk about these things early and often, and they’ll start watching how “others” live.
Everything woke turns to shucks
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I worked with a black lady that's daughter was not happy at all. She said that she didn't raise her daughter to marry a white man. To each their own. My son will make those decisions based on how he was raised and his personal life experiences. I work with a white girl that only dates black guys. She has 4 children by 3 different guys.
"I'm not near as critical about how big they are as I once was. Smiles are more important now! We will grow more deer."
Jimmy G.
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I tell my 8yr old to be kind and friendly to everyone
but,stick with your own race! I don’t care what
anyone says but at the end of the day whites and
blacks have totally different cultures and I don’t
want my daughter wrapped up in that different culture.
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I have explained to both of my girls that they can be friends with em, but can’t date em. It ain’t happening, and for those that has a good black guy in the family that’s great, I’m proud for y’all, but 90% of the black guys I know that wanna date a white girl and straight up thugs, sorry pos, government babies. Yalls little princess gonna supporting some pandas and they daddy when it’s said and done. Glad them few worked out for y’all.
Red birds stick with red birds, blue birds stick with blue birds
How I was told coming up, how my kids are told. And maybe I’m wrong, but both races can be open to things for a certain time frame, but sometime or another they’ll go back to there roots.
I’ll always love my kids, but that don’t mean I’ll always support em. And with that said, my house my rules! No black boys, and no punk ass, white trash white boys neither. Sums it up.
Free men aren't equal and equal men aren't free! I choose to defend my freedom!
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