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About two weeks ago we found out that my girlfriend was diagnosed with what was thought to be stage two breast cancer. We were trying to remain pretty optimistic based on the survival rates etc. Previous to this appointment she had also injured herself playing in a mother son kickball game and since has had some trouble walking. So as a precaution, the doctor order a bone scan and MRI to evaluate what was going on there.
We we met with the doctors yesterday and comes to find out, she in fact has stage 4 breast cancer that has infected her hip, femur, shoulder and her chest. It is non curable and they can only do what they can to try and extend her lifespan. To say the least, this was crushing news. Basically I am not really understanding how to cope with such news and being since she is a 27yr old single mother to a 5yr old little boy, I can only imagine what she is going through on her end. Any Advice would be greatly appreciated.
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Man that's horrible so sorry to hear that. My best friend lost his wife to that in January she was 36 with 2 young kids. Praying for y'all.
They who can give up essential liberty to obtain a little temporary safety, deserve neither liberty nor safety.
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Dang that’s tough. My gf is 27 so I’m not even sure how I would react to something of that magnitude. Only advice I’d give is to go get a second opinion since there was a difference in the diagnosis. Heck you may even want to look into alternative treatments if the second opinion doctors say it’s not curable. May as well try all you can to beat it. Cancer is a horrible thing.
Sending prayers y’alls way for comfort in this tough time.
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John 3:16: "For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life".
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What is her name so the Aldeer membership can start to pray for her? Check your PM's.
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If my people, who are called by my name, will humble themselves and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then will I hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and will heal their land. 2 Chronicles 7:14
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Very sorry to hear that. Try to communicated with her friends; people will avoid her, because they simply don't know what to say. Keep an eye on yourself, and go seek professional help.
Just an FYI: People in constant pain can get very mean. If she lashes out at you it may be the pain and not her.
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"I'm not near as critical about how big they are as I once was. Smiles are more important now! We will grow more deer."
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So sad, prayers sent 
"Don't let a dead deer kill ya"
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Very sad to hear. Prayers for all of y'all. Don't give up hope. God can do amazing things.
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Prayers Lifted. God Bless
LUCK:::; When presistence, dedication, perspiration and preparation meet up with opportunity!!!
- - - - - - - -A government big enough to give you everything you want, is big enough to take everything you have. Thomas Jeferson - - - - - - - -
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Well, the way I see it is there's just too many assholes
On a good day there's a bunch of assholes in here.
On a bad day there's too many assholes in here.
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Praying for her, you and the child.
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It takes a long time to grow an old friend.
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"The struggle you're in today, is developing the strength you need for tomorrow."
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Light travels faster than sound. This is why some people
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Prayers sent. Look in to clinical trials if possible. I dated a girl that beat stage 3 breast. It’s tough on everyone involved. St Vincent’s has a woman doctor that’s one of the best with breast ca. Sorry but I can’t remember her name right now. Praying for all of you.
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American by birth Southern by the grace of God.....
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Prayers for all. Please encourage her not to give up. Cancer Centers of America would be worth trying. A friend of mine was told he had stage 4 pancreatic cancer and only had 2 months to live. He went to Atlanta to see those specialists at the Cancer Center and as of today is cancer free. He was diagnosed almost 2 years ago, so it definitely changed his perspective on the words of just one doctor.
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