Thank you to everyone it means a lot to me to read your words of encouragement. She is able to move her limbs a little at times, but then relapse and can’t. The nurses are not helping any, they keep demanding that she move her arm or sit up and take pills and when she can’t they get an attitude with her. While she is coherent, she gets fixated on certain things and won’t let it go, silly things sometimes. Wish I could do something to help her. 46 yrs old is too young for her to be going through this, but her families history should have been enough. If your spouse has family members with health issues, make your spouse get it checked out no matter how stobbirn they can be.