Our son is 10 months old and y’all might not believe it but guess what we did? F-ing prepared for mama to stay home and take care of our baby until he started school. That’s 4 years not a couple months FYI. Dang so working hard to keep a good job to take care of the small human i made is how you are supposed to do things? Who’d have thunk it. WTF are they thinking? Their bulldoodoo programs already pay more for the more gremlins you can spit out the better. rebel man I do agree with you in that it’s supposed to be our money because we paid it in so we should be able to use it. Guess what it’s not, it’s a fraking ponzi scheme our government runs so we’re good right?