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Dating advice on Aldeer?
This is great. Following with interest.
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Any man you encounter is who he is, you won't change him and if you do you'll come to despise him. That right there is GOSPEL. And men, if you are an asshole...be one. Eventually the real you comes out and neither of you will be happy.
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I missed the thread but apparently you asked something like "why can't I find a good man?" to which I could easily respond, "they gave up on trying to find a good woman". Now I have no idea whether you are a good woman or not, but don't kid yourself, that's the place to start. A worthless man only wants sex from you but sex is not enough to keep a good man, not by a long shot. If you want to keep a good man, you better up your game. Let me be clear here, I'm talking about your character and not how well you display your feminine attributes.
Again, I don't know you or anything about you, this may not apply to you at all, but, if you want a good man get over the thrill of the chase. Women walk right past good men all the time on their way to a$$holes. Any man you encounter is who he is, you won't change him and if you do you'll come to despise him. So if you know from the beginning he's a jerk, why do you waste your time and then cry about it when he treats you exactly the way you knew he would? I can't understand why women get so overcome by the challenge of subduing a man when they must know there is no happy outcome? Either they fail which makes them unhappy or they succeed and are unhappy with the result. You're never going to find the romance novel man because he doesn't exist. I wonder if women want good men at all or maybe our definitions of what a "good man" is are very different.
1. Examine yourself. What kind of woman are you?
2. MBrock is right, up your odds significantly by finding a godly man. Where are you looking for this "good man"? It’s irritating as hell to watch a chick flick with the wife. We were watching this fairy tale movie “safe haven” the other day. Totally unrealistic expectations. They were riding in a canoe together all googley eyed in the middle of a cypress swamp. In the middle of summer. THEY DIDNT SWAT NOT ONE DANG MOSQUITO. I kid you not.
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[quote=Mbrock]Girl if you wanna find a good loving man start at church, not aldeer. Don’t fool yourselves there’s a lot of snakes that grace those benches every Sunday. Playing the good roll. There’s lots of good people in this world and some find God in the great outdoors and in everyday life. I've lived on both sides of it in my lifetime and can guarantee the odds are much better inside of a Bible-centered church. Yep. ^^^^ God said where 2 or 3 are gathered in his name he is there, he did not say when you are waiting on a deer or a turkey I am there. He likely don't really care if you kill one or not. I agree 100%!!!!!
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If you’ll start with a man who understands that he is to love his wife like Christ loved the church then you’re several steps ahead of most women with that man. Christ sacrificed for the church, to the point of death. There’s not many men who will sacrifice their desires and wants for a woman. You find one who will and he will love you like you deserve.
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If you’ll start with a man who understands that he is to love his wife like Christ loved the church then you’re several steps ahead of most women with that man. Christ sacrificed for the church, to the point of death. There’s not many men who will sacrifice their desires and wants for a woman. You find one who will and he will love you like you deserve. And then she changes her mind, "gets bored", whatever you wanna call it because women hate nice guys and divorce is big money for women. I get your point but guys say empty chit like that when reality is not so idealistic.
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If you’ll start with a man who understands that he is to love his wife like Christ loved the church then you’re several steps ahead of most women with that man. Christ sacrificed for the church, to the point of death. There’s not many men who will sacrifice their desires and wants for a woman. You find one who will and he will love you like you deserve. Truth. When a man and women are living as Christ commands, divorce is impossible.
Isaiah 5:20 Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter.
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Half this board when a female posts here.... ![[Linked Image]](https://i.makeagif.com/media/8-28-2015/DxCCzB.gif)
"You think I care? Roll Damn Tide"
Have you tried Google?
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Half this board when a female posts here.... Oh hail that's so wrong but you got me rolling man!
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How you do anything is how you do everything
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Half this board when a female posts here.... ![[Linked Image]](https://i.imgur.com/bCblCuX.gif)
Last edited by jmudler; 02/08/18 04:48 PM.
Isaiah 5:20 Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter.
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Half this board when a female posts here.... And then there's the other half.....  ![[Linked Image]](https://i.imgur.com/KZgHZpa.png)
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Only accurate rifles are interesting.
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irregardless Brooke. Welcome to Aldeer. 
I came, I saw, so I killed them all......Vern
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I bet if she listed the 14 people that pm'd her, it would be like the Ashley Madison dating website scandel....
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Keep your booger hooker off the bang switch.
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Q If you’ll start with a man who understands that he is to love his wife like Christ loved the church then you’re several steps ahead of most women with that man. Christ sacrificed for the church, to the point of death. There’s not many men who will sacrifice their desires and wants for a woman. You find one who will and he will love you like you deserve. This is a two way street and only works long term if the woman holds up her end and loves and respects her husband in the way the bible teaches.
If you're gonna be stupid you better be tough.
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From what I've seen it is much easier for a woman to respect her husband and submit to his headship in the home if he loves her unconditionally though. It does take sacrifice from BOTH. For Brooke, if you'll spend your time becoming that woman that a good man is looking for then you will not have any trouble finding him.
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Brooke what ever you do, if you kill a big buck don't post pictures. People will take your land if they can't do that, they will spot light it every night, or turn dogs loose on it and kill them when they cross the road. Or you will be accused of killing it in a pen.
If you're gonna be stupid you better be tough.
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