I missed the thread but apparently you asked something like "why can't I find a good man?" to which I could easily respond, "they gave up on trying to find a good woman". Now I have no idea whether you are a good woman or not, but don't kid yourself, that's the place to start. A worthless man only wants sex from you but sex is not enough to keep a good man, not by a long shot. If you want to keep a good man, you better up your game. Let me be clear here, I'm talking about your character and not how well you display your feminine attributes.
Again, I don't know you or anything about you, this may not apply to you at all, but, if you want a good man get over the thrill of the chase. Women walk right past good men all the time on their way to a$$holes. Any man you encounter is who he is, you won't change him and if you do you'll come to despise him. So if you know from the beginning he's a jerk, why do you waste your time and then cry about it when he treats you exactly the way you knew he would? I can't understand why women get so overcome by the challenge of subduing a man when they must know there is no happy outcome? Either they fail which makes them unhappy or they succeed and are unhappy with the result. You're never going to find the romance novel man because he doesn't exist. I wonder if women want good men at all or maybe our definitions of what a "good man" is are very different.
1. Examine yourself. What kind of woman are you?
2. MBrock is right, up your odds significantly by finding a godly man. Where are you looking for this "good man"?
