Early and mid-thirties. Was with them over Christmas. Go to church with me? Nope, not for me. I just went 'cause you and Mom made me!! I didn't give them a ration of anything, just said, when asked why I went Xmas eve as well as Xmas day, it means a lot to me. That got their attention at least. I'm trying to be an example now, not a hammer.
I am an example of your children. Walked completely away as a teen. Was baptized at 36 and active ever since. Don't lose faith.
Isaiah 5:20 Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter.