I have always believed that a heterosexual male is just hard-wired to feel uncomfortable around some dude who is trying to out-feminine the women. I was in a restaurant in Pensacola the other day, young guy at the next table was with what looked like family, this young guy had the earrings, the purse, the limp wrist, and sounded like a damn girl. Do want you want behind closed doors, I could care less if you're polishing some other dudes knob, but this having to accept deviant behavior, or else, well, it pisses me off is what it does.