Irish, I don't even know you. Only having a 3 year old myself, I can't imagine the memories you have with your son. All I can say is that you have a heart of gold and big brass balls for sharing something that most would hold private. Hopefully your message can comfort others that may need it. Thank you for your inspiration sir. Don't be afraid to call on the aldeer family if you need anything. I'll do anything I can for you.
"When there was no fowl, we ate crawdad, when there was no crawdad, we ate sand."