I get my 3 year old son every weekend, federal holidays, week of thanksgiving and week of the 4th and another whole week during the summer. If his moms at work and I'm off I get him. She's a nurse so works a crazy schedule. Me and her are friends and just try and do what's best for him. She lets me get him early all the time and if she ask I let her. We always talk for a min while we're swapping him and I think that really good for him to see.