Originally Posted By: coldtrail
Her mother was married and put here up for adoption. She has been looking for her biological parents for twelve years.

The only way she can be related to both sides is through me. The paternity test will tell the truth.

I did alot of things from age 17 to 24, Im afraid this may be the tip of the ice berg. At 24 I was saved and my life totally turned around. What I struggle with is after all the change and years my past continues to haunt me. Being redeemed doesnt solve all my problems. My wife is handling it well. I dont know how to tell our kids. They only know the person that was redeemed not the selfish person I was

This could turn out better than you think. My wife and I found her real dad when she was thirty. They've had a wonderful relationship and she's enjoyed meeting some brothers and sisters she didn't know she had. Sometimes these things turn out bad, but not always.