Prayers man. Sounds like you are doing it the right way. She is seeking you out for a reason, and i don't think that it is for child support.
Don't sweat the past. It helped shape the man you are today.
She submitted her DNA. The results showed she was related to my mother's family in Baltimore. She then found out she was a 2nd cousin to my 1st cousin on my fathers side. then she located my mother.my brothers are twins and were 13, so that left me.
If I was her father there were 3 possibilities as to who her mother was. She had some info about the adoption that narrowed it down. She has not located her mother