Originally Posted By: coldtrail
Her mother was married and put here up for adoption. She has been looking for her biological parents for twelve years.

The only way she can be related to both sides is through me. The paternity test will tell the truth.

I did alot of things from age 17 to 24, Im afraid this may be the tip of the ice berg. At 24 I was saved and my life totally turned around. What I struggle with is after all the change and years my past continues to haunt me. Being redeemed doesnt solve all my problems. My wife is handling it well. I dont know how to tell our kids. They only know the person that was redeemed not the selfish person I was


There isnt a one of us who doesnt have something in our past we dont look back on with regret or shame, or in hindsight would have done differently.

You had no knowledge of this until now so dont beat yourself up too bad about it. Im sure your family will understand.


Ethical behavior is doing the right thing when no one else is watching - even when doing the wrong thing is legal. Aldo Leopold .. (except when it comes to trailer tags)