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Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: rulebreaker] #2227562
09/16/17 07:14 AM
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Originally Posted By: rulebreaker
Originally Posted By: ford150man
What do you do when a friend has been proven to be a thief? He hasn't stolen from me (at least not yet) but I will save you the details of the long story. Do you drop him because it's only a matter of time before he steals from you? Do you drop him to save your own reputation? Before anyone asks, no, he isn't stealing to survive or feed kids. He's just turned out to be a crook. My first thought is to disassociate myself from him because thieves are scum but so are people that cheat on their spouses and very seldom do you see a person drop a friend over that. What do y'all think? It may be a clear answer and I'm just in shock this guy is who he REALLY is.

This is over the top. The only thing you havn't asked on here YET, is what clothes should I wear today. Your pathetic!!


Really?

What I find pathetic is your inability to distinguish between "your" and "you're" and your apparent lack of knowledge in how to use the correct one.

You might consider applying the old adage, "if you cannot say anything nice, you should not say anything at all."


If you live to be a hundred, I want to live to be a hundred minus one day, so I never have to live without you.---Winnie the Pooh
Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: ford150man] #2227573
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I've been in a similar situation. The difference was it was a lifelong friend. It wasn't him stealing, but the people he assocIated with were. I also suspected some drug use. It took one instance, and I cut ties. I told him that he was not welcome in my space unless he started keeping different company. Haven't seen him since.

Be careful hanging around the thief, or people will start viewing you in the same light that I saw my friend in the story above.

Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: ford150man] #2227576
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Huntress is dead on. No need for that kind of BS.

Ford, if it were me, if he is a long time good friend, you should sit and talk with him. Try to find out if addiction is causing this. If it is then see if he will go to rehab. If he is just a clepto or whatever then cut ties. But find out the motive. You may be the last person that has a chance to do so before he OD's or gets locked away for a long time. And you may just be the person he will listen to. Just my two cents.

Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: ford150man] #2227597
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Originally Posted By: ford150man

Originally Posted By: jlbuc10
I'd turn him in to the police. I've had to call the cops on my addict friends before.


Someone else already has. That's what started making me think there was something to the rumors. Then it just snowballed and the number of people he has stolen from and the amount of evidence has come pouring out.


Don't walk away.....RUN and don't look back. If he should ask tell him why and be done with him. Count your blessing he hasn't stolen from you.


I came, I saw, so I killed them all......Vern
Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: rulebreaker] #2227618
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Originally Posted By: rulebreaker
Originally Posted By: ford150man
What do you do when a friend has been proven to be a thief? He hasn't stolen from me (at least not yet) but I will save you the details of the long story. Do you drop him because it's only a matter of time before he steals from you? Do you drop him to save your own reputation? Before anyone asks, no, he isn't stealing to survive or feed kids. He's just turned out to be a crook. My first thought is to disassociate myself from him because thieves are scum but so are people that cheat on their spouses and very seldom do you see a person drop a friend over that. What do y'all think? It may be a clear answer and I'm just in shock this guy is who he REALLY is.


This is over the top. The only thing you havn't asked on here YET, is what clothes should I wear today. Your pathetic!!


WOW....what exactly is the purpose of that comment?


In your darkest hour when the demons come, call on me brother and we'll fight them together.
Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: rulebreaker] #2227640
09/16/17 09:02 AM
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Originally Posted By: rulebreaker
Originally Posted By: ford150man
What do you do when a friend has been proven to be a thief? He hasn't stolen from me (at least not yet) but I will save you the details of the long story. Do you drop him because it's only a matter of time before he steals from you? Do you drop him to save your own reputation? Before anyone asks, no, he isn't stealing to survive or feed kids. He's just turned out to be a crook. My first thought is to disassociate myself from him because thieves are scum but so are people that cheat on their spouses and very seldom do you see a person drop a friend over that. What do y'all think? It may be a clear answer and I'm just in shock this guy is who he REALLY is.


This is over the top. The only thing you havn't asked on here YET, is what clothes should I wear today. Your pathetic!!


Who are you? California?


"The Heavens declare the glory of God;and the firmament sheweth his handiwork" Pslam 19:1
Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: ford150man] #2227690
09/16/17 09:46 AM
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I,agree with Top Cat and rem 270

Most are addicted to it,,walk away before it cost you!
Easier said than done.


Every day's a gift !
Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: ford150man] #2227760
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I have disassociated myself from people for a lot less.

Life is short.

Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: rulebreaker] #2227877
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Originally Posted By: rulebreaker
Originally Posted By: ford150man
What do you do when a friend has been proven to be a thief? He hasn't stolen from me (at least not yet) but I will save you the details of the long story. Do you drop him because it's only a matter of time before he steals from you? Do you drop him to save your own reputation? Before anyone asks, no, he isn't stealing to survive or feed kids. He's just turned out to be a crook. My first thought is to disassociate myself from him because thieves are scum but so are people that cheat on their spouses and very seldom do you see a person drop a friend over that. What do y'all think? It may be a clear answer and I'm just in shock this guy is who he REALLY is.


This is over the top. The only thing you havn't asked on here YET, is what clothes should I wear today. Your pathetic!!


And here we have the thief.


Whoever is happy will make others happy too. Anne Frank
Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: ford150man] #2227931
09/16/17 01:23 PM
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I had a lifelong friend steal a pair of $200 Costas from me about 7 years ago.I mean me and this guy grew up together and I was the only one there for him when he got to a bad place in his life.Woulda gave him my last dollar if I knew he really needed it.Havent spoke to him since that day and have zero plans to.I also had a lifelong friend that use to come to my house everyday.We also grew up together.After he got a divorce and remarried he got to messing around on his wife alot and started getting chit started with alotta folks.Was messing with married women as well.He is no longer my friend and not allowed at my house.I don't tolerate bullchit and won't let it in my life.

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Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: Geno] #2227932
09/16/17 01:24 PM
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Originally Posted By: Geno
Originally Posted By: rulebreaker
Originally Posted By: ford150man
What do you do when a friend has been proven to be a thief? He hasn't stolen from me (at least not yet) but I will save you the details of the long story. Do you drop him because it's only a matter of time before he steals from you? Do you drop him to save your own reputation? Before anyone asks, no, he isn't stealing to survive or feed kids. He's just turned out to be a crook. My first thought is to disassociate myself from him because thieves are scum but so are people that cheat on their spouses and very seldom do you see a person drop a friend over that. What do y'all think? It may be a clear answer and I'm just in shock this guy is who he REALLY is.


This is over the top. The only thing you havn't asked on here YET, is what clothes should I wear today. Your pathetic!!


And here we have the thief.



lol


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Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: trox28] #2227966
09/16/17 01:51 PM
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Originally Posted By: trox28
I had a lifelong friend steal a pair of $200 Costas from me about 7 years ago.I mean me and this guy grew up together and I was the only one there for him when he got to a bad place in his life.Woulda gave him my last dollar if I knew he really needed it.Havent spoke to him since that day and have zero plans to.I also had a lifelong friend that use to come to my house everyday.We also grew up together.After he got a divorce and remarried he got to messing around on his wife alot and started getting chit started with alotta folks.Was messing with married women as well.He is no longer my friend and not allowed at my house.I don't tolerate bullchit and won't let it in my life.


Spot on. If you can avoid drama and debt you'll live a happy simple life.

Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: ford150man] #2228579
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If you have to get on a public forum and ask for advise on this subject, well you might have a bigger problem

Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: rulebreaker] #2229638
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Originally Posted By: rulebreaker
Originally Posted By: ford150man
What do you do when a friend has been proven to be a thief? He hasn't stolen from me (at least not yet) but I will save you the details of the long story. Do you drop him because it's only a matter of time before he steals from you? Do you drop him to save your own reputation? Before anyone asks, no, he isn't stealing to survive or feed kids. He's just turned out to be a crook. My first thought is to disassociate myself from him because thieves are scum but so are people that cheat on their spouses and very seldom do you see a person drop a friend over that. What do y'all think? It may be a clear answer and I'm just in shock this guy is who he REALLY is.


This is over the top. The only thing you havn't asked on here YET, is what clothes should I wear today. Your pathetic!!

*you're

Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: CeeHawk37] #2229650
09/18/17 10:26 AM
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Originally Posted By: CeeHawk37

Ford, if it were me, if he is a long time good friend, you should sit and talk with him. Try to find out if addiction is causing this. If it is then see if he will go to rehab. If he is just a clepto or whatever then cut ties. But find out the motive. You may be the last person that has a chance to do so before he OD's or gets locked away for a long time. And you may just be the person he will listen to. Just my two cents.


My 1st reaction on a message board would be to cut ties and move on; however, CeeHawk has the best advice thumbup


"The struggle you're in today, is developing the strength you need for tomorrow."
Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: hillmp] #2229680
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Originally Posted By: hillmp
If you have to get on a public forum and ask for advise on this subject, well you might have a bigger problem


Yeah, and if you have to be a keyboard cowboy by throwing in your two cents with a smart ass comment, you must be trying to overcome some inadequacy somewhere else. Maybe physical?


If voting made any difference, they wouldn’t let us do it.-Mark Twain
Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: ford150man] #2229689
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Originally Posted By: ford150man

Originally Posted By: hillmp
If you have to get on a public forum and ask for advise on this subject, well you might have a bigger problem


Yeah, and if you have to be a keyboard cowboy by throwing in your two cents with a smart ass comment, you must be trying to overcome some inadequacy somewhere else. Maybe physical?



gun

Hillmp must've stolen from a friend before.... thumbup

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Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: ford150man] #2229710
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If he is a real friend I would let him know that I know & take it from there.


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Re: When a friend is a thief [Re: ford150man] #2229750
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Thieves have something broke in their minds. They are self centered and really don't have friends. You may consider yourself his, but I guarantee you that he don't feel the same way. Share Jesus with him and he will either never talk to you again, or he'll get saved.

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Originally Posted By: ford150man

Originally Posted By: hillmp
If you have to get on a public forum and ask for advise on this subject, well you might have a bigger problem


Yeah, and if you have to be a keyboard cowboy by throwing in your two cents with a smart ass comment, you must be trying to overcome some inadequacy somewhere else. Maybe physical?


What makes you any different than him by assaulting his physical attributes. Why ask for opinions if you can't accept them all with a grain of salt.

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