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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: oakachoy]
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01/23/17 04:47 PM
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Describe this "stalking."
Is YankeeKid just showing up where your son and GF are hanging out and being a punk jackass? Or is he being like a weirdo-slashermovie-psycho creeper?
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: Yelp softly]
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01/23/17 04:50 PM
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Tough one. Personally I feel like a lot of this teenage crap is attention seeking behavior. By you and your son giving him some attention, it could be getting the results he wants in a weird, perverse way. I'd ignore it and try to counsel my son and the girl on why I choose to ignore it. Sick people just want attention and they don't care if it takes weird behavior to get it. I would only take action if he made ignoring it impossible. If he's threatening to harm himself, I can ignore that. Threatening to harm others is a different story. I'll buy that, I was in no way threatening with my neighbor and have known him a long time. My plan was to make him aware of what is going on and that the kid has been warned. There's a lot of testosterone going on here too. I counseled my son that we made the Yankee's family aware of a problem and that he could not act on anything, anyway shape or form. I made him understand there is quite possible a stability issue too.
WM Hunter "Trump literally sacrificed himself, his family and all of his businesses for this country.
He literally is a true American hero. And True American Patriot - warts and all."
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: Geno]
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01/23/17 04:51 PM
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Bhamfred's advice never disappoints  You should have seen what he said about trespassers  ..... I'm kidding here. let the law handle it as much as possible. I was telling it like it is on the poachers
I've spent most of the money I've made in my lifetime on hunting and fishing. The rest I just wasted.....
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: doekiller]
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01/23/17 04:51 PM
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I am confused how that is any of your business. This^^^^ not to mention you are liable to end up in jail or sued over a teenage romance that will likely be over by summer.
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: JAT50]
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01/23/17 04:53 PM
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I am confused how that is any of your business. This^^^^ not to mention you are liable to end up in jail or sued over a teenage romance that will likely be over by summer. x3
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: Clem]
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01/23/17 04:54 PM
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Describe this "stalking."
Is YankeeKid just showing up where your son and GF are hanging out and being a punk jackass? Or is he being like a weirdo-slashermovie-psycho creeper?
its more electronic type stalking, continual messages to friends etc. No physical type presence that we aware of. If he came around my son and made eye contact it would have been the the seabass routine.
WM Hunter "Trump literally sacrificed himself, his family and all of his businesses for this country.
He literally is a true American hero. And True American Patriot - warts and all."
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: Yelp softly]
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01/23/17 04:57 PM
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Tough one. Personally I feel like a lot of this teenage crap is attention seeking behavior. By you and your son giving him some attention, it could be getting the results he wants in a weird, perverse way. I'd ignore it and try to counsel my son and the girl on why I choose to ignore it. Sick people just want attention and they don't care if it takes weird behavior to get it. I would only take action if he made ignoring it impossible. If he's threatening to harm himself, I can ignore that. Threatening to harm others is a different story. The kid's not sick, he's heart broke and he's not old enough or experienced enough to know how to deal with it. He wants the girl, she doesn't want him and he doesn't know how all that works yet. Once he realizes there is no hope, and a little time passes, he'll get over it. He's not looking for anyone's attention but hers. He had it for a minute, now he doesn't and he's trying to figure out how to get it back and doesn't yet understand that he's not going to get it back. This is a hard thing for a teenager.
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: oakachoy]
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01/23/17 04:57 PM
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Where are her parents in this? I know some on here don't want to hear this but it is not any of your business, or your sons. This is up to the girl and her parents, speaking to his dad is one thing, mentioning your son as you did can be viewed as a thinly veiled threat. However, dont blow this idiot off, the kid has issues and should not be trusted at all. Now that you have in some what confronted him about his behavior it will most likely get worse before it gets better unless the boys parents step in immediately.
Last edited by sbo1971; 01/23/17 05:00 PM.
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: Deadwood]
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01/23/17 04:59 PM
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Let the girl and her parents handle it through L.E.
Y'all are about to go down a bad road. This
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: oakachoy]
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01/23/17 04:59 PM
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Round ‘bout there
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So what you have is bullying and cyber-stalking. If they are of a truly serious nature, to the point of harassment and/or violent-vulgar speech, being done on school property and/or school time then the GF and GF's father should report it to the principal and police if the kid keeps doing it after your porch convo with his father.
An ass beating may be old school but your son will suffer the consequences, which is what YankeeKid also may be desiring - to draw him into the fray.
Or YankeeKid could accidentally fall up some stairs a few times. Chit happens among teenagers.
"Hunting Politics are stupid!" - Farm Hunter
"Bible says you shouldn't put sugar in your cornbread." Dustin, 2013
"Best I can figure 97.365% of the general public is a paint chip eating, mouth breathing, certified dumbass." BCLC, 2020
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: oakachoy]
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01/23/17 05:00 PM
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Don't ignore the threat of him harming himself. If he is seriously considering this, he could also be deranged enough to want to harm others in the process. De-escalate the situation which appears to be at a tipping point right now. The girl's parents should immediately seek a restraining order to let yankee kid know his actions must cease. Your boy may be tough and able to stomp him into a mudhole but yankee kid may come back with something your boy can't handle.
Dying ain't much of a living boy...Josey Wales
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: oakachoy]
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01/23/17 05:02 PM
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Tell her dad that a LEO advised you to tell him to file a report and tell him to follow up on it if it continues.
Do nothing yourself and do your best to get your son to run. It isn't worth it at his age. Like Doekiller said, it is not your business unless dude tries to physically hurt the girl.
Dollar to a donut that if she really wanted it stopped she could get it stopped. I've seen a lot of nice girls that enjoy being the center of attention in teenage drama. Women too, for that matter.
Last edited by jawbone; 01/23/17 05:02 PM.
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: AU338MAG]
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01/23/17 05:02 PM
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Don't ignore the threat of him harming himself. If he is seriously considering this, he could also be deranged enough to want to harm others in the process. De-escalate the situation which appears to be at a tipping point right now. The girl's parents should immediately seek a restraining order to let yankee kid know his actions must cease. Your boy may be tough and able to stomp him into a mudhole but yankee kid may come back with something your boy can't handle. Exactly!!!!!
Elite Omnia, Easton FMJ, Axcel Landslyde 5 pin slider.
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: sbo1971]
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01/23/17 05:02 PM
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Where are her parents in this? I know some on here don't want to hear this but it is not any of your business, or your sons. Tjis is up to the girl and her parents, speaking to his dad is one tjing, mentioning your son ad you did can be viewed as a thinly veiled threat. However, dont blow this idiot off, the kid has issues and should not be trusted at all. Now that you have in some what confronted him about his behavior it will most likely get worse before it gets better unless the boys parents step in immediately. The girlfriend has already had her Dad call the kid directly. Maybe it was the wrong thing to do but, I did let the kid's Dad know that there is a problem that his family needs to deal with. that I did not want my Son to escalate a situation to where there is damage.
WM Hunter "Trump literally sacrificed himself, his family and all of his businesses for this country.
He literally is a true American hero. And True American Patriot - warts and all."
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: oakachoy]
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01/23/17 05:04 PM
01/23/17 05:04 PM
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Behind your shadow
Reloader79
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Valid point jawbone, most teenagers these days are attention seekers.
If I agreed with you, we'd both be wrong.
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: oakachoy]
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01/23/17 05:06 PM
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Round ‘bout there
Clem
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Some teens always have sought attention. That is nothing new.
"Hunting Politics are stupid!" - Farm Hunter
"Bible says you shouldn't put sugar in your cornbread." Dustin, 2013
"Best I can figure 97.365% of the general public is a paint chip eating, mouth breathing, certified dumbass." BCLC, 2020
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: Clem]
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01/23/17 05:07 PM
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So what you have is bullying and cyber-stalking. If they are of a truly serious nature, to the point of harassment and/or violent-vulgar speech, being done on school property and/or school time then the GF and GF's father should report it to the principal and police if the kid keeps doing it after your porch convo with his father.
An ass beating may be old school but your son will suffer the consequences, which is what YankeeKid also may be desiring - to draw him into the fray.
Or YankeeKid could accidentally fall up some stairs a few times. Chit happens among teenagers. The yankee kid has already graduated and should have moved on from this. The girlfriend is a senior and just turned 18 this week. My Son is a junior in high school.
Last edited by oakachoy; 01/23/17 05:08 PM.
WM Hunter "Trump literally sacrificed himself, his family and all of his businesses for this country.
He literally is a true American hero. And True American Patriot - warts and all."
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Re: here's one to ask aldeer. teenager drama
[Re: oakachoy]
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01/23/17 05:07 PM
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Keep tabs on the situation , but let them work it out themselves.
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