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Every 3 or 4 months
#1118065
10/19/14 03:42 PM
10/19/14 03:42 PM
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tombo51
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My little girl is due for a butt whuppin she is 4 be 5 in January but I could see it coming all day today just acting like a brat so it came to a head this evening & I had to do what I hate to do & whip her she is a great kid by the way just needs to be set straight every now & then but man it tears me up to do it I always sit her down afterwards & explain why she got in trouble & that I love her...but I'm finding out what my parents meant when they say this hurts me more than it does you
All men die few ever really live
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Re: Every 3 or 4 months
[Re: tombo51]
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10/19/14 03:56 PM
10/19/14 03:56 PM
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TChunter
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You did the right thing. Just make sure they understand why after its said and done. Especially at that younger age I always sit down with mine and talk it out afterwards. I always get a "yes sir" and a hug. They are great kids because of it and rarely need spanked.
On the Eighth day God created flounder.
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Re: Every 3 or 4 months
[Re: tombo51]
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10/19/14 04:28 PM
10/19/14 04:28 PM
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tombo51
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I do the same thing TC with the yes sir & a hug
All men die few ever really live
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Re: Every 3 or 4 months
[Re: tombo51]
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10/20/14 01:51 AM
10/20/14 01:51 AM
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hosscat
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I have a 3 yo son and he gets spankings regularly. My wife and I try to draw a line in the sand and if he crosses it, he gets immediate punishment. Sometimes its timeout, sometimes we take away toys or having friends coming over, and a lot of times is a spanking. I always take the time to explain why he is getting punished, and unless its something really dangerous I give him 1 warning.
He is a very good child but like all children he tests his boundaries. I have had friends, family members, and his preschool teachers all look at me in amazement when I say that he gets several spankings nearly every week. They all say but he is such a good kid, I can't imagine him getting in trouble.
I think its all about being credible and consistant with disciplining, he knows if we tell him to do something its not a suggestion, we mean it.
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