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Re: Girl Scouts Warning [Re: Clem] #2968025
11/27/19 01:27 PM
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Originally Posted by Clem
Originally Posted by Nightwatchman
Unpopular opinion: I support a no-hug policy. And that has more to do with boundaries than affection. I am not a hugger, and believe me, I catch some serious slack for it at Church(BAPTIST church by the way). I do not think you need to physically touch someone to convey affection. I respect others' personal space and expect that they respect mine. The only woman I would ever actually hug is my wife. I certainly do not intend to hug another woman whether it be at church or elsewhere. I just don't find that necessary or really even appropriate. on that note, I have stopped other men from hugging my wife as well. I catch alot of blowback and usually hear something like "hey man I've known her my whole life." I really don't care how long you've known her, I don't put my hands on your wife, so don't put your hands on mine. I understand it is an age old custom to hug one another but I can exchange platonic pleasantries with women in Sunday school class, or my wife's friends, or other female friends without involving any physical contact.

If I ever have a daughter, I won't allow anyone to hug her. Just not necessary. There are too many creeps out there and there isn't any call for someone to be making physical contact.


Nothing like a hearty handshake for a grandmother or aunt, for sure.

Clem wins close the thread !! I laughed way too hard at that . I’m a hugger btw.

Re: Girl Scouts Warning [Re: NSDQ160] #2968030
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This Saturday we will be seeing two of our foster kids from three years ago. 5 (girl) and 3 (boy) now. Both of them will run from the car to my wife and I. All of us will have our arms open. I cant wait.


Isaiah 5:20 Woe to those who call evil good and good evil, who put darkness for light and light for darkness, who put bitter for sweet and sweet for bitter.
Re: Girl Scouts Warning [Re: WmHunter] #2968041
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Originally Posted by WmHunter
" American people did nothing while radical Leftists took over the Girl Scouts and the Boy Scouts. ."


Not everyone. The way to fight enemy is to grow stronger. We have over 60 boys in our Trail Life troop. I am the Trail Master for the Huntsville 1613 troop. In a couple years I will be leaving and opening a new Trail Life troop in South Huntsville.I am ashamed of what the Scouts have become.....it feeds me.

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Re: Girl Scouts Warning [Re: Clem] #2968042
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Originally Posted by Clem
Nothing like a hearty handshake for a grandmother or aunt, for sure.


rofl

Re: Girl Scouts Warning [Re: Nightwatchman] #2968046
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Originally Posted by Nightwatchman
Unpopular opinion: I support a no-hug policy. And that has more to do with boundaries than affection. I am not a hugger, and believe me, I catch some serious slack for it at Church(BAPTIST church by the way). I do not think you need to physically touch someone to convey affection. I respect others' personal space and expect that they respect mine. The only woman I would ever actually hug is my wife. I certainly do not intend to hug another woman whether it be at church or elsewhere. I just don't find that necessary or really even appropriate. on that note, I have stopped other men from hugging my wife as well. I catch alot of blowback and usually hear something like "hey man I've known her my whole life." I really don't care how long you've known her, I don't put my hands on your wife, so don't put your hands on mine. I understand it is an age old custom to hug one another but I can exchange platonic pleasantries with women in Sunday school class, or my wife's friends, or other female friends without involving any physical contact.

If I ever have a daughter, I won't allow anyone to hug her. Just not necessary. There are too many creeps out there and there isn't any call for someone to be making physical contact.


You sure you’re not attending a Branch Davidian church?

Re: Girl Scouts Warning [Re: NSDQ160] #2968052
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Originally Posted by NSDQ160
Originally Posted by Nightwatchman
Unpopular opinion: I support a no-hug policy. And that has more to do with boundaries than affection. I am not a hugger, and believe me, I catch some serious slack for it at Church(BAPTIST church by the way). I do not think you need to physically touch someone to convey affection. I respect others' personal space and expect that they respect mine. The only woman I would ever actually hug is my wife. I certainly do not intend to hug another woman whether it be at church or elsewhere. I just don't find that necessary or really even appropriate. on that note, I have stopped other men from hugging my wife as well. I catch alot of blowback and usually hear something like "hey man I've known her my whole life." I really don't care how long you've known her, I don't put my hands on your wife, so don't put your hands on mine. I understand it is an age old custom to hug one another but I can exchange platonic pleasantries with women in Sunday school class, or my wife's friends, or other female friends without involving any physical contact.

If I ever have a daughter, I won't allow anyone to hug her. Just not necessary. There are too many creeps out there and there isn't any call for someone to be making physical contact.


You sure you’re not attending a Branch Davidian church?


So what happens when your wife or child hugs someone else? 10 lashings from the cane rod and a week in the hole?

Re: Girl Scouts Warning [Re: Clem] #2968057
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Originally Posted by Clem
Originally Posted by Nightwatchman
Unpopular opinion: I support a no-hug policy. And that has more to do with boundaries than affection. I am not a hugger, and believe me, I catch some serious slack for it at Church(BAPTIST church by the way). I do not think you need to physically touch someone to convey affection. I respect others' personal space and expect that they respect mine. The only woman I would ever actually hug is my wife. I certainly do not intend to hug another woman whether it be at church or elsewhere. I just don't find that necessary or really even appropriate. on that note, I have stopped other men from hugging my wife as well. I catch alot of blowback and usually hear something like "hey man I've known her my whole life." I really don't care how long you've known her, I don't put my hands on your wife, so don't put your hands on mine. I understand it is an age old custom to hug one another but I can exchange platonic pleasantries with women in Sunday school class, or my wife's friends, or other female friends without involving any physical contact.

If I ever have a daughter, I won't allow anyone to hug her. Just not necessary. There are too many creeps out there and there isn't any call for someone to be making physical contact.


Nothing like a hearty handshake for a grandmother or aunt, for sure.

🤣 I hope u don't have a daughter...youd kill some boys one day


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Re: Girl Scouts Warning [Re: jmudler] #2968058
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Originally Posted by jmudler
Originally Posted by WmHunter
" American people did nothing while radical Leftists took over the Girl Scouts and the Boy Scouts. ."


Not everyone. The way to fight enemy is to grow stronger. We have over 60 boys in our Trail Life troop. I am the Trail Master for the Huntsville 1613 troop. In a couple years I will be leaving and opening a new Trail Life troop in South Huntsville.I am ashamed of what the Scouts have become.....it feeds me.


Bravo!!

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Re: Girl Scouts Warning [Re: 3toe] #2968077
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Originally Posted by 3toe
Originally Posted by NSDQ160
Originally Posted by Nightwatchman
Unpopular opinion: I support a no-hug policy. And that has more to do with boundaries than affection. I am not a hugger, and believe me, I catch some serious slack for it at Church(BAPTIST church by the way). I do not think you need to physically touch someone to convey affection. I respect others' personal space and expect that they respect mine. The only woman I would ever actually hug is my wife. I certainly do not intend to hug another woman whether it be at church or elsewhere. I just don't find that necessary or really even appropriate. on that note, I have stopped other men from hugging my wife as well. I catch alot of blowback and usually hear something like "hey man I've known her my whole life." I really don't care how long you've known her, I don't put my hands on your wife, so don't put your hands on mine. I understand it is an age old custom to hug one another but I can exchange platonic pleasantries with women in Sunday school class, or my wife's friends, or other female friends without involving any physical contact.

If I ever have a daughter, I won't allow anyone to hug her. Just not necessary. There are too many creeps out there and there isn't any call for someone to be making physical contact.


You sure you’re not attending a Branch Davidian church?


So what happens when your wife or child hugs someone else? 10 lashings from the cane rod and a week in the hole?


X2


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Re: Girl Scouts Warning [Re: 3toe] #2968085
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Originally Posted by 3toe
Originally Posted by NSDQ160
Originally Posted by Nightwatchman
Unpopular opinion: I support a no-hug policy. And that has more to do with boundaries than affection. I am not a hugger, and believe me, I catch some serious slack for it at Church(BAPTIST church by the way). I do not think you need to physically touch someone to convey affection. I respect others' personal space and expect that they respect mine. The only woman I would ever actually hug is my wife. I certainly do not intend to hug another woman whether it be at church or elsewhere. I just don't find that necessary or really even appropriate. on that note, I have stopped other men from hugging my wife as well. I catch alot of blowback and usually hear something like "hey man I've known her my whole life." I really don't care how long you've known her, I don't put my hands on your wife, so don't put your hands on mine. I understand it is an age old custom to hug one another but I can exchange platonic pleasantries with women in Sunday school class, or my wife's friends, or other female friends without involving any physical contact.

If I ever have a daughter, I won't allow anyone to hug her. Just not necessary. There are too many creeps out there and there isn't any call for someone to be making physical contact.


You sure you’re not attending a Branch Davidian church?


So what happens when your wife or child hugs someone else? 10 lashings from the cane rod and a week in the hole?



Well no, I mean, I'm not gonna stop my daughter/wife from hugging their grandfather/grandmother.

And yes, Clem, I have fist bumped a couple of aunts in my day.

People give me the same blow back all the time. I'm just not a toucher. Don't like being touched, don't particularly care for me or mine to be touched by anyone else.

IF I ever wind up with a daughter, It takes ONE instance where a creepy uncle gets a little too handsy with his hug and it would devastate that little girl for life. It happens OFTEN. Most cases of abuse are actually perpetrated by a child's own family members. Safest route is to just tell everyone to keep their physical distance. Say what you want, but it's my job to protect her, and the only surefire way to do that is keep everyone at a acceptable physical distance.

Re: Girl Scouts Warning [Re: Clem] #2968086
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Originally Posted by Clem
Originally Posted by Nightwatchman
Unpopular opinion: I support a no-hug policy. And that has more to do with boundaries than affection. I am not a hugger, and believe me, I catch some serious slack for it at Church(BAPTIST church by the way). I do not think you need to physically touch someone to convey affection. I respect others' personal space and expect that they respect mine. The only woman I would ever actually hug is my wife. I certainly do not intend to hug another woman whether it be at church or elsewhere. I just don't find that necessary or really even appropriate. on that note, I have stopped other men from hugging my wife as well. I catch alot of blowback and usually hear something like "hey man I've known her my whole life." I really don't care how long you've known her, I don't put my hands on your wife, so don't put your hands on mine. I understand it is an age old custom to hug one another but I can exchange platonic pleasantries with women in Sunday school class, or my wife's friends, or other female friends without involving any physical contact.

If I ever have a daughter, I won't allow anyone to hug her. Just not necessary. There are too many creeps out there and there isn't any call for someone to be making physical contact.


Nothing like a hearty handshake for a grandmother or aunt, for sure.


Be a mighty fine way to turn off yer rich aunt , if she ain't rich she might be a really good cook and the fried pies will dry up. Bet he's a real peach at a funeral.



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Re: Girl Scouts Warning [Re: jb20] #2968087
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Originally Posted by jb20
Originally Posted by Clem
Originally Posted by Nightwatchman
Unpopular opinion: I support a no-hug policy. And that has more to do with boundaries than affection. I am not a hugger, and believe me, I catch some serious slack for it at Church(BAPTIST church by the way). I do not think you need to physically touch someone to convey affection. I respect others' personal space and expect that they respect mine. The only woman I would ever actually hug is my wife. I certainly do not intend to hug another woman whether it be at church or elsewhere. I just don't find that necessary or really even appropriate. on that note, I have stopped other men from hugging my wife as well. I catch alot of blowback and usually hear something like "hey man I've known her my whole life." I really don't care how long you've known her, I don't put my hands on your wife, so don't put your hands on mine. I understand it is an age old custom to hug one another but I can exchange platonic pleasantries with women in Sunday school class, or my wife's friends, or other female friends without involving any physical contact.

If I ever have a daughter, I won't allow anyone to hug her. Just not necessary. There are too many creeps out there and there isn't any call for someone to be making physical contact.


Nothing like a hearty handshake for a grandmother or aunt, for sure.

🤣 I hope u don't have a daughter...youd kill some boys one day



I just hope that if I ever have one, I raise her well enough and that I set a good enough example of how to walk under God's authority so that when she grows up she will honor Christ in all that she does. Including dating relationships.

Re: Girl Scouts Warning [Re: Nightwatchman] #2968102
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Originally Posted by Nightwatchman
Unpopular opinion: I support a no-hug policy. And that has more to do with boundaries than affection. I am not a hugger, and believe me, I catch some serious slack for it at Church(BAPTIST church by the way). I do not think you need to physically touch someone to convey affection. I respect others' personal space and expect that they respect mine. The only woman I would ever actually hug is my wife. I certainly do not intend to hug another woman whether it be at church or elsewhere. I just don't find that necessary or really even appropriate. on that note, I have stopped other men from hugging my wife as well. I catch alot of blowback and usually hear something like "hey man I've known her my whole life." I really don't care how long you've known her, I don't put my hands on your wife, so don't put your hands on mine. I understand it is an age old custom to hug one another but I can exchange platonic pleasantries with women in Sunday school class, or my wife's friends, or other female friends without involving any physical contact.

If I ever have a daughter, I won't allow anyone to hug her. Just not necessary. There are too many creeps out there and there isn't any call for someone to be making physical contact.

Mash here

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Re: Girl Scouts Warning [Re: NSDQ160] #2968104
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I enjoy showing those I care about affection. Guys and gals will get a hug from me if we are close. I’ve always been that way and always will. I also don’t care if another guy hugs my wife, nor do I think it’s inappropriate. Uniqueness is what makes this world so great. Hell I even hug Uncle Hucks neck when I see him lol.

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Originally Posted by bamaeyedoc
Originally Posted by Nightwatchman
Unpopular opinion: I support a no-hug policy. And that has more to do with boundaries than affection. I am not a hugger, and believe me, I catch some serious slack for it at Church(BAPTIST church by the way). I do not think you need to physically touch someone to convey affection. I respect others' personal space and expect that they respect mine. The only woman I would ever actually hug is my wife. I certainly do not intend to hug another woman whether it be at church or elsewhere. I just don't find that necessary or really even appropriate. on that note, I have stopped other men from hugging my wife as well. I catch alot of blowback and usually hear something like "hey man I've known her my whole life." I really don't care how long you've known her, I don't put my hands on your wife, so don't put your hands on mine. I understand it is an age old custom to hug one another but I can exchange platonic pleasantries with women in Sunday school class, or my wife's friends, or other female friends without involving any physical contact.

If I ever have a daughter, I won't allow anyone to hug her. Just not necessary. There are too many creeps out there and there isn't any call for someone to be making physical contact.

Mash here

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Originally Posted by Nightwatchman
Unpopular opinion: I support a no-hug policy. And that has more to do with boundaries than affection. I am not a hugger, and believe me, I catch some serious slack for it at Church(BAPTIST church by the way). I do not think you need to physically touch someone to convey affection. I respect others' personal space and expect that they respect mine. The only woman I would ever actually hug is my wife. I certainly do not intend to hug another woman whether it be at church or elsewhere. I just don't find that necessary or really even appropriate. on that note, I have stopped other men from hugging my wife as well. I catch alot of blowback and usually hear something like "hey man I've known her my whole life." I really don't care how long you've known her, I don't put my hands on your wife, so don't put your hands on mine. I understand it is an age old custom to hug one another but I can exchange platonic pleasantries with women in Sunday school class, or my wife's friends, or other female friends without involving any physical contact.

If I ever have a daughter, I won't allow anyone to hug her. Just not necessary. There are too many creeps out there and there isn't any call for someone to be making physical contact.



I can respect your opinion.

I don't hug other women besides my mom, in private settings, nor without their offering to hug me first, and them being friends. .
Usually always a side hug and with other people around.

I hug males that I know/friends as well, but not strangers.

I've worked with abused kids and adults, and understand personal space. I'm not writing those who don't hug have been abused.

I'm just a hugger, and more touchy/feely than most guys.

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Originally Posted by Nightwatchman
Unpopular opinion: I support a no-hug policy. And that has more to do with boundaries than affection. I am not a hugger, and believe me, I catch some serious slack for it at Church(BAPTIST church by the way). I do not think you need to physically touch someone to convey affection. I respect others' personal space and expect that they respect mine. The only woman I would ever actually hug is my wife. I certainly do not intend to hug another woman whether it be at church or elsewhere. I just don't find that necessary or really even appropriate. on that note, I have stopped other men from hugging my wife as well. I catch alot of blowback and usually hear something like "hey man I've known her my whole life." I really don't care how long you've known her, I don't put my hands on your wife, so don't put your hands on mine. I understand it is an age old custom to hug one another but I can exchange platonic pleasantries with women in Sunday school class, or my wife's friends, or other female friends without involving any physical contact.

If I ever have a daughter, I won't allow anyone to hug her. Just not necessary. There are too many creeps out there and there isn't any call for someone to be making physical contact.

The New Testament actually says to greet one another with kiss, soooooo....

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Nightwatchman, I’m certainly not going to beat a man over his convictions, but Jesus and the disciples were very affectionate physically with each other and others they came across. It’s a cultural norm in a lot of places for men and women to greet with a kiss. It doesn’t have to be sexual or creepy. Carry on. No harm done.

Re: Girl Scouts Warning [Re: NSDQ160] #2968127
11/27/19 03:54 PM
11/27/19 03:54 PM
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Originally Posted by NSDQ160
Originally Posted by bamaeyedoc
What a load of chit. Scouting is not what it was back in the day. Used to be a really good organization for a lot of young men women growing up. As a former Eagle Scout, I used to donate to them just because it was such an integral part of my life from ages 10-15. Stopped many years ago after they started their liberal lean and will never support them on a national level again.

Dr. B


Here locally I had my son in the Cub Scout pack. Once they made their transgender stance I had just about all I could take but the other leaders begged us to stay if our local pack would make a public comment on it so we did. Finally the letting girls in things happened. I personally made the public comment that time and District as well as State did not like it one bit. We had sold our community that our pack would remain a traditional scouting organization and our numbers were increasing dramatically. People here really resonated to that. Well the actual scouting employees of BSA were women so they didn't like our stance one bit and eventually had the state and District council force the girl thing down our throats so I along with 80% of the pack left. I didn't urge them to leave at all, when my resignation email went out I was contacted by all the parents and they willingly followed. We now have started our own scouting organization in the North Alabama area. Every time we go to a campground or park and ask for the scout rate and explain to them what we're doing they love it. We started with 12 boys and have already tripled in size. We call ourselves the ALFAS (Adventure Leadership Friendship Achievement Service; and obviously a play on words - Alpha male).




Haha Alfa’s......do they have to sell some insurance and meddle in Alabama game laws to get a badge ?


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Re: Girl Scouts Warning [Re: Mbrock] #2968148
11/27/19 04:34 PM
11/27/19 04:34 PM
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Originally Posted by Mbrock
Nightwatchman, I’m certainly not going to beat a man over his convictions, but Jesus and the disciples were very affectionate physically with each other and others they came across. It’s a cultural norm in a lot of places for men and women to greet with a kiss. It doesn’t have to be sexual or creepy. Carry on. No harm done.




Right, it's a cultural thing. We have been in the book of Ruth lately, and last week we studied how Naomi sent Ruth to uncover Boaz's feet and lay next to him. That might seem somewhat sexual to us, but in Jewish culture it was not seen as sexual but more of a submissive gesture on Ruth's part.

Like I said, I get a lot of blowback, get poked fun at for being such a touch-me-not, but to me, it is kind of instinctual. If someone gets inside mine or my wife's personal space it automatically sends up red flags.

my in-laws actually have a foster daughter that is always wanting me to pick her up and carry her around. Up until my wife and I married I wouldnt pick her up. Just didnt feel it appropriate to pick up a child that wasn't mine. all it would take would be ONE scenario or spoken word from that child to be taken out of context and it would ruin my life.

I play it safe and if I ever have a daughter I would want people to play it safe as well

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