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Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
#2902292
09/12/19 09:17 AM
09/12/19 09:17 AM
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Posts: 3,157 Alabama
buck_buster
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If you get to see your kids every day, and see them grow up consider your self lucky.
I see my soon 4 days out of a month, its been like this since he was 1, its hard. He is in 3rd grade now and his grades and behavior is getting worse and worse. Hard to be the disciplinary when you don't see him.
Its hard. Like I said be thankful.
I love the rut. The woods are like a bunch of roided up meatheads fighting over a girl.
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: buck_buster]
#2902297
09/12/19 09:20 AM
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MarksOutdoors
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I really do feel for you, Buck. I luckily got custody of my daughter when she was three and happily my ex hasn't seen her in over 15 years.
"The true soldier fights not because he hates what is in front of him, but because he loves what is behind him." -G. K. Chesterton
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: MarksOutdoors]
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09/12/19 09:21 AM
09/12/19 09:21 AM
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buck_buster
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I really do feel for you, Buck. I luckily got custody of my daughter when she was three and luckily my ex hasn't seen her in over 15 years.
I pay Child Support, and the child is not even staying with his mother..
I love the rut. The woods are like a bunch of roided up meatheads fighting over a girl.
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: buck_buster]
#2902326
09/12/19 09:44 AM
09/12/19 09:44 AM
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Posts: 6,648 Trussville Alabama
inatree
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Been there and your right it sucks. I would plan my vacation around getting my kids along with school breaks
Free men aren't equal and equal men aren't free! I choose to defend my freedom!
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: buck_buster]
#2902341
09/12/19 10:05 AM
09/12/19 10:05 AM
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kodiak06
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I really do feel for you, Buck. I luckily got custody of my daughter when she was three and luckily my ex hasn't seen her in over 15 years.
I pay Child Support, and the child is not even staying with his mother.. Child support is understandable. Maybe being away from mom is a good thing. Enjoy your 4 days and make the most of them like I'm sure you are
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: buck_buster]
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09/12/19 10:20 AM
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dagwood
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I feel your pain. I have 2 boys and a girl. The boys are 8 and 4 years older than the girl. Wife decided she didn't want to keep the family together when my little girl was 5. We had such a great father/daughter relationship. Long story short I took custody of the 2 boys and she took the girl. Distance and time gradually eroded mine and daughters relationship. We still love each other but I missed out on so many things as she grew up. She's 26 now and getting married. My biggest regret in my life is not being able to be a day to day Dad for her.
Last edited by dagwood; 09/12/19 10:21 AM.
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: buck_buster]
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09/12/19 10:40 AM
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That’s awful man! Couldn’t imagine not seeing mine everyday. Praying for ya buddy
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: buck_buster]
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09/12/19 11:36 AM
09/12/19 11:36 AM
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I was there briefly and I feel your pain. This board would be a good place for a fathers rights group to start as there are some good men on here and the state of Alabama is really biased. The only way it will ever change is if men stand up and push for legislative changes. I think the default guidance in the state is if under 5 mother automatically gets full custody and the father 4 days a month and 8 hours at Christmas or that is what I remember from my bout with this in 2015.
Life is difficult Science prevails over bulldoodoo and superstition every time
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: buck_buster]
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09/12/19 11:43 AM
09/12/19 11:43 AM
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87dixieboy
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There are a lot of us on here who know what you are going through and empathize with your pain. The system is rigged for us dads and there is nothing anyone can do about it. Best thing I have found that can be done is spend every second with them that you can and always let them know they are loved. I tell mine every single time I am with her that if I could see her every day I wouldn't miss the opportunity. It is an unfortunate part of life my friend.
Only accurate rifles are interesting.
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: buck_buster]
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09/12/19 12:00 PM
09/12/19 12:00 PM
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Thank you all. I know I am not alone. I didn't post for pity, just hurts when you can not be the father you know you can be.
I love the rut. The woods are like a bunch of roided up meatheads fighting over a girl.
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: sj22]
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09/12/19 12:07 PM
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That’s awful man! Couldn’t imagine not seeing mine everyday. Praying for ya buddy
LUCK:::; When presistence, dedication, perspiration and preparation meet up with opportunity!!! - - - - - - - -A government big enough to give you everything you want, is big enough to take everything you have. Thomas Jeferson - - - - - - - -
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
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09/12/19 12:34 PM
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Out of wedlock childbirth and divorce is killing this country. Fatherless children and children with part time fathers (even when no fault of the father who the mother divorced) have created a massive social problem in this country. Here is a news article that speaks about this problem. The media and politicians RARELY address this problem. https://www.foxnews.com/opinion/mis...-of-mass-shooters-come-from-broken-homes
"The Tree of Liberty must be refreshed from time to time with the blood of patriots and tyrants." Thomas Jefferson
" Chuck Sykes is a dictator control freak like Vladimir Putin " WmHunter
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: buck_buster]
#2902487
09/12/19 12:53 PM
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inatree
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Another thing that bothers me is when the ex wants to use the kids like they are a pawn or something. Mine figured out real quick that I wasn't going to play that game. They know how much our kids mean to us and try to use them anyway they can.
Free men aren't equal and equal men aren't free! I choose to defend my freedom!
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: buck_buster]
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09/12/19 01:02 PM
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87dixieboy
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What I want to know is how much drugs did those of you dads that have full custody have to plant in order to get this said custody... but for real I am happy for those of you that have this. The state of Alabama needs to get with the program and allow those that are not dead beat dads to have more parental influence.
Only accurate rifles are interesting.
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Re: Hard to be a daddy 4 days a month
[Re: 87dixieboy]
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09/12/19 01:12 PM
09/12/19 01:12 PM
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buck_buster
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What I want to know is how much drugs did those of you dads that have full custody have to plant in order to get this said custody... but for real I am happy for those of you that have this. The state of Alabama needs to get with the program and allow those that are not dead beat dads to have more parental influence. I know that is right.......... Let me know how...
I love the rut. The woods are like a bunch of roided up meatheads fighting over a girl.
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