</a JR Holmes Oil Company </a Shark Guard Southeast Woods and Whitetail Mayer Insurance Services LLC
Aldeer Classifieds
WTB .22 LR Bolt Action
by Cuz-Pat. 04/23/24 09:19 PM
Iso Henry Golden boy
by AustinC. 04/23/24 08:32 PM
Basketball goal.... Free
by longshot. 04/23/24 06:18 PM
FS: Henry Single Shot
by Ron A.. 04/23/24 05:41 PM
Honda Foreman 4WD
by eeua90. 04/23/24 01:35 PM
Serious Deer Talk
Hunting Lease Insurance
by mw2015. 04/24/24 02:42 PM
Future of Camo
by globe. 04/23/24 04:20 PM
Neat IL buck Story
by pickenstj. 04/23/24 01:32 PM
Tdogs mount
by TDog93. 04/21/24 08:10 PM
Taxidermist called
by Mbrock. 04/21/24 04:58 PM
April
S M T W T F S
1 2 3 4 5 6
7 8 9 10 11 12 13
14 15 16 17 18 19 20
21 22 23 24 25 26 27
28 29 30
Land, Leases, Hunting Clubs
Hunting Lease Insurance
by mw2015. 04/23/24 07:49 PM
Help against Timber Company
by winlamberth. 04/17/24 11:31 PM
South Side Hunting Club (Baldwin County)
by Stickslinger91. 04/15/24 10:38 AM
Lease Prices in Lamar Co.
by Luxfisher. 04/12/24 05:38 PM
Kansas Muzzleloader/Bow
by Letshunt. 04/11/24 03:15 PM
Who's Online Now
104 registered members (quickshot, furnfeather, Raven, Young20, misfire, BCLC, JHL, courseup, turfarmer, GUT_SHOT, beetrapper, hallb, !shiloh!, mossyback, Ben2, jeffhhub, MattIce, OutdoorsAL, Gut Pile 32, JohnG, WDE, fish251, crenshawco, sawdust, JustHunt, twaldrop4, Big AL 76, Jstocks, MS_Hunter, eclipse829, AU338MAG, Peach, RidgeRanger, Shmoe, TDog93, AU coonhunter, MarkCollin, Bustinbeards, Overland, jhardy, jawbone, ALMODUX, AustinC, SouthBamaSlayer, Big Al, Chancetribe, Bulls eye, coldtrail, Floorman1, Whild_Bill, MikeP, Backwards cowboy, Sgt_mike, foldemup, johnv, bodock, 300gr, odocoileus, scrubbuck, olemossy, mathews prostaff, treemydog, seminole1, Dubie, Chad Burnette, Drycreek, dagwood, Paint Rock 00, Fattyfireplug, Gobble4me757, Camden86, bamafarmer, Moose24, Birdman83, Ron A., YellaLineHunter, Turkeyneck78, Coosa1, scrape, sportrep, sidehitter, ImThere, Dean, Nowlide, CNC, JohnnyLoco, desertdog, Chiller, Mdees, Skullworks, Buckwheat, JA, jake44, TexasHuntress, JB357, cartervj, rhino21, NotsoBright, 6 invisible), 601 guests, and 0 spiders.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Page 2 of 6 1 2 3 4 5 6
Re: Travel baseball team [Re: bhammedic84] #2830142
06/15/19 07:32 AM
06/15/19 07:32 AM
Joined: Jan 2013
Posts: 19,657
Pelham
Ben2 Online IMG_0051.GIF
Old Mossy Horns
Ben2  Online IMG_0051.GIF
Old Mossy Horns
Joined: Jan 2013
Posts: 19,657
Pelham
6u what does that mean. Surely we ain't talking about 5 and 6 yr olds. They dont need travel ball

Re: Travel baseball team [Re: ford150man] #2830144
06/15/19 07:36 AM
06/15/19 07:36 AM
Joined: Jan 2018
Posts: 4,128
GA
UncleHuck Offline
10 point
UncleHuck  Offline
10 point
Joined: Jan 2018
Posts: 4,128
GA
Originally Posted by ford150man
Originally Posted by Joe4majors
Be careful that you’re not teaching him the fundamentals of a sport he’s going to learn to hate by the time he’s in middle school.


I didn’t go into it in my post but it happened with my boys. They all “wanted it”, so I pushed too hard. Especially with my oldest. Now, you couldn't pay them to play. Let them have fun. Worry more about the type man they grow up to be rather than the type ball player.


x100

Generally today, there is too much "daddy ball" and not nearly enough fun for the kids.

Re: Travel baseball team [Re: bhammedic84] #2830145
06/15/19 07:36 AM
06/15/19 07:36 AM
Joined: Jan 2014
Posts: 6,648
Trussville Alabama
inatree Offline
14 point
inatree  Offline
14 point
Joined: Jan 2014
Posts: 6,648
Trussville Alabama
My thoughts exactly. I don't think travel ball should start until 12u. To many teams out there and travel ball is watered down with average players right now.


Free men aren't equal and equal men aren't free! I choose to defend my freedom!
Re: Travel baseball team [Re: bhammedic84] #2830147
06/15/19 07:38 AM
06/15/19 07:38 AM
Joined: Nov 2009
Posts: 8,571
Grays Creek, NC
bigcountry692001 Offline
14 point
bigcountry692001  Offline
14 point
Joined: Nov 2009
Posts: 8,571
Grays Creek, NC
My niece has been doing travel softball for several years and if there’s anything I’ve learned from it is that it is a money pit.


"You cant manage a deer herd with acorns."

-Dr. Craig Harper

Re: Travel baseball team [Re: bhammedic84] #2830148
06/15/19 07:38 AM
06/15/19 07:38 AM
Joined: Mar 2019
Posts: 2,001
North Alabama
N
NSDQ160 Offline
8 point
NSDQ160  Offline
8 point
N
Joined: Mar 2019
Posts: 2,001
North Alabama
Travel ball isn’t the way to go. If you want to teach him fundamentals then spend your money on practice tools y’all can use in the yard. Also really evaluate YOURE involvement in all this. Out of all the six year olds I’ve coached I’m not sure I ever found one who knew what they wanted, much less that they wanted to be the best and understood what that took. A father pushing a son is the number one reason kids quit sports and sons feel like they’re not living up to some standard. It’s usually because the parent or parents are trying to live vicariously through their child rather than just let them enjoy all aspects of the sport which includes fundamentals but also team building, how to win and lose with class and learn to be a coachable kid. At that age it has nothing to do with performance on the field because until they hit 14 you have no idea what kind of ball player they’ll really be.

Re: Travel baseball team [Re: bhammedic84] #2830151
06/15/19 07:44 AM
06/15/19 07:44 AM
Joined: Jan 2002
Posts: 5,103
McCalla, Alabama
MarkBAMA Offline
12 point
MarkBAMA  Offline
12 point
Joined: Jan 2002
Posts: 5,103
McCalla, Alabama
They are 6. They need basic fundamentals which start in the yard. Competition at that age comes more from the parents than the kids. I get that park ball has it’s challenges but at that age it’s more about parents that think it’s “cute” for their kid to play ball than it is the kid wanting to play.

Invest in your kid by getting them some hitting instruction and go to some local baseball camps instead of worrying about all stars or travel ball at this age it will pay off when it really matters. I’ve seen too many get burned out before high school ball and walk away from the game after enough money had been spent to pay for the most of their college. My son got a scholarship to play baseball 2 yrs
ago and never played travel ball but most think it has to be done to get noticed.

6-8 games a weekend is still too much for a 6yr old. For the safety and health of your kid I would rethink your strategy. Spend time developing them and love for the game instead of turning the game into a job or expensive hobby.

Last edited by MarkBAMA; 06/15/19 07:49 AM.

ROLL TIDE !!!

Enough Said....
Re: Travel baseball team [Re: bhammedic84] #2830153
06/15/19 07:45 AM
06/15/19 07:45 AM
Joined: Mar 2014
Posts: 2,640
Florida
P
Peach Online content
10 point
Peach  Online Content
10 point
P
Joined: Mar 2014
Posts: 2,640
Florida
My son didn't play travel ball until he was 13 years old. (and that was for one year only) He ended up having a great D-1 career and turned down a top ten draft round pick out of high school. Make sure he is getting a lot of sound, fundamental reps. Travel ball can be a good thing later on because the competition level is usually stronger. Be patient and take him fishing. If he can play, it will come out in the wash!

Re: Travel baseball team [Re: ford150man] #2830167
06/15/19 08:10 AM
06/15/19 08:10 AM
Joined: Jan 2015
Posts: 2,424
Dale County, AL
G
Groundhawg Offline
10 point
Groundhawg  Offline
10 point
G
Joined: Jan 2015
Posts: 2,424
Dale County, AL
Originally Posted by ford150man
Why don’t you just sign up to be a coach at the park next season? I don’t care what you pay, the coaches are volunteers and if you don’t volunteer yourself, then you have no right to complain. I’ve already been through all this with three sons and I can tell you, at six years old, your son doesn’t know what he wants. His mind will change with the wind. I agree with what was stated above too, all stars for six year olds is ridiculous. No offense intended with my statements.



Do your part before you start complaining so much about others. Do you want to help your Son and others be better or just turn that task over to someone else? An under 6 All Start Travel team is a joke. Just let the kids have some fun. Work with your Son more if you want him to improve.

Re: Travel baseball team [Re: bhammedic84] #2830168
06/15/19 08:13 AM
06/15/19 08:13 AM
Joined: Nov 2011
Posts: 21,781
USA
R
Remington270 Offline
Freak of Nature
Remington270  Offline
Freak of Nature
R
Joined: Nov 2011
Posts: 21,781
USA
I assure you the park and rec coaches aren’t getting paid. You should just coach them yourself. It’s fun.

Re: Travel baseball team [Re: bhammedic84] #2830186
06/15/19 09:01 AM
06/15/19 09:01 AM
Joined: Dec 2005
Posts: 1,027
Meridianville, AL
FastXD Offline
6 point
FastXD  Offline
6 point
Joined: Dec 2005
Posts: 1,027
Meridianville, AL
The problem with rec ball is you have 2-4 kids that want to be there and want to get better but you have 8-10 that are there because mom and dad want a babysitter and or to get their kid off video games. This is all great for everyone but the kids that want to do better. As a coach you spend all of your time trying to make the 8-10 kids better that could care less and very little time with the kids that want to do better. I will agree the travel teams now days are watered down with kids that are average or below. If you do decide to do travel ball do your research and find a good team with good coaches that don't over do it because there are a lot of them that will play every weekend. If these parks would do a competitive league it would make the travel ball not needed at the younger ages but they don't want to hurt any feelings. This is my opinion as I have lived it with two boys and wished I would have started my oldest in travel ball at a sooner age. Is it expensive? YES but I wouldn't trade the time, friendships and memories for anything. And like others said coach them yourself but make sure the kids have fun at that age

Last edited by FastXD; 06/15/19 09:04 AM.
Re: Travel baseball team [Re: bhammedic84] #2830191
06/15/19 09:19 AM
06/15/19 09:19 AM
Joined: Aug 2001
Posts: 9,659
blount county alabama
I
imadeerhntr Offline
14 point
imadeerhntr  Offline
14 point
I
Joined: Aug 2001
Posts: 9,659
blount county alabama
Take the money that you are thinking of investing in travel ball and start a college tuition fund. You add up the travel expense motel stays, eating out, team fees and by the time he graduates you will have saved enough to at least pay for 2 years at a community college. What I would seriously look at is once he gets high school age is getting him into a school with a coach that competes at highly competitive level. Take the travel ball money now and get him hitting and fielding lessons with a private coach that has played and actually knows the game.

Re: Travel baseball team [Re: FastXD] #2830206
06/15/19 10:07 AM
06/15/19 10:07 AM
Joined: Apr 2018
Posts: 1,460
North of 459 South of 20
B
bhammedic84 Offline OP
8 point
bhammedic84  Offline OP
8 point
B
Joined: Apr 2018
Posts: 1,460
North of 459 South of 20
Originally Posted by FastXD
The problem with rec ball is you have 2-4 kids that want to be there and want to get better but you have 8-10 that are there because mom and dad want a babysitter and or to get their kid off video games. This is all great for everyone but the kids that want to do better. As a coach you spend all of your time trying to make the 8-10 kids better that could care less and very little time with the kids that want to do better. I will agree the travel teams now days are watered down with kids that are average or below. If you do decide to do travel ball do your research and find a good team with good coaches that don't over do it because there are a lot of them that will play every weekend. If these parks would do a competitive league it would make the travel ball not needed at the younger ages but they don't want to hurt any feelings. This is my opinion as I have lived it with two boys and wished I would have started my oldest in travel ball at a sooner age. Is it expensive? YES but I wouldn't trade the time, friendships and memories for anything. And like others said coach them yourself but make sure the kids have fun at that age


This is exactly what I mean. And for the ones says teach him myself well I do every day I get. My work schedule will not allow me to be a COACH but I can assist when my schedule allows. As far as pushing my son too hard that I do not I asked him if he wants to practice if he says yes we practice if he says no we don't is his decision when we start practicing when he gets ready to stop we stop no questions asked. he and one other on the All-Star team actually want to be there and learn the others play in the dirt pick flowers kick dirt on the basis what not it makes it very tough for the two that want to learn to learn and for the one saying that my son doesn't know what he wants just ask him


Turkey’s tell you when they want to die not lawmakers.
Re: Travel baseball team [Re: bhammedic84] #2830208
06/15/19 10:16 AM
06/15/19 10:16 AM
Joined: Dec 2014
Posts: 5,034
Northport, AL
Phil_Army Offline
12 point
Phil_Army  Offline
12 point
Joined: Dec 2014
Posts: 5,034
Northport, AL
#1 rule: don't ask your "friends" to sponsor your travel ball team. I get so sick and tired of people asking me to sponsor their kids travel ball team. If you want to partake in that hobby, go for it. Just don' ask me to sponsor it


Broker/Owner and Area Representative for 1st Class Real Estate
2018's #1 Real Estate Agent according to the Tuscaloosa News
Re: Travel baseball team [Re: Phil_Army] #2830211
06/15/19 10:26 AM
06/15/19 10:26 AM
Joined: Apr 2018
Posts: 1,460
North of 459 South of 20
B
bhammedic84 Offline OP
8 point
bhammedic84  Offline OP
8 point
B
Joined: Apr 2018
Posts: 1,460
North of 459 South of 20
Originally Posted by Phil_Army
#1 rule: don't ask your "friends" to sponsor your travel ball team. I get so sick and tired of people asking me to sponsor their kids travel ball team. If you want to partake in that hobby, go for it. Just don' ask me to sponsor it

Not seeking donations


Turkey’s tell you when they want to die not lawmakers.
Re: Travel baseball team [Re: Ben2] #2830214
06/15/19 10:34 AM
06/15/19 10:34 AM
Joined: Jan 2002
Posts: 11,702
Saraland, Alabama
hammerhead Offline
Booner
hammerhead  Offline
Booner
Joined: Jan 2002
Posts: 11,702
Saraland, Alabama
Originally Posted by Ben2
6u what does that mean. Surely we ain't talking about 5 and 6 yr olds. They dont need travel ball


6U refers to the kids ages...6U is 6 and under (could be 7 and under depending on how the league "ages up"...in the softball league my daughter's played in, it was based on the child's age as of January 1. Child could turn 7 on Jan 2 but still play in 6U as they were 6 yrs old on Jan 1)

The kid is 6 yrs old...let him play park/rec ball and have fun. 6 yr old teams around here are nothing more than organized playground teams...kids playing in the dirt, sitting in the outfield picking grass, fighting over who gets which popsicle after the game, etc I saw a friend's post on Facebook earlier this week and his kid plays 6U ball...score was like 38-37 and that was normal for the games in that age group. Your description of the coaches is spot on for all 6U coaches...they are really nothing more than babysitters on the field. They can tell/show one kid something and by the time they move on to the next kid, the previous kid is back to making dirt piles, chasing bugs, and eating grass.

If you want to make changes, volunteer to coach or be asst coach, run for a position on the board of directors at the park, etc. Work with your kid and help him get better. Let him come to you and ask to play...if he really wants to play travel ball, he'll ask you if he can play. You force him to play and you're living the life you want through him.

Re: Travel baseball team [Re: Turkey] #2830217
06/15/19 10:42 AM
06/15/19 10:42 AM
Joined: Dec 2005
Posts: 4,968
Mobile,AL/ Baldwin, Al
gatorbait154 Offline
12 point
gatorbait154  Offline
12 point
Joined: Dec 2005
Posts: 4,968
Mobile,AL/ Baldwin, Al
Originally Posted by Turkey
I’m sorry. I can’t get passed travel ball for 6 year old kids.

Re: Travel baseball team [Re: Phil_Army] #2830219
06/15/19 10:51 AM
06/15/19 10:51 AM
Joined: Jan 2014
Posts: 6,615
Lake View, AL
Joe4majors Offline
14 point
Joe4majors  Offline
14 point
Joined: Jan 2014
Posts: 6,615
Lake View, AL
Originally Posted by Phil_Army
#1 rule: don't ask your "friends" to sponsor your travel ball team. I get so sick and tired of people asking me to sponsor their kids travel ball team. If you want to partake in that hobby, go for it. Just don' ask me to sponsor it


What happened to what you said last week? You were going to buy me a Trophy Rock as long as we put an advertisement on the side.



grin

Re: Travel baseball team [Re: hammerhead] #2830222
06/15/19 10:54 AM
06/15/19 10:54 AM
Joined: Apr 2018
Posts: 1,460
North of 459 South of 20
B
bhammedic84 Offline OP
8 point
bhammedic84  Offline OP
8 point
B
Joined: Apr 2018
Posts: 1,460
North of 459 South of 20

Originally Posted by hammerhead
Originally Posted by Ben2
6u what does that mean. Surely we ain't talking about 5 and 6 yr olds. They dont need travel ball


6U refers to the kids ages...6U is 6 and under (could be 7 and under depending on how the league "ages up"...in the softball league my daughter's played in, it was based on the child's age as of January 1. Child could turn 7 on Jan 2 but still play in 6U as they were 6 yrs old on Jan 1)

The kid is 6 yrs old...let him play park/rec ball and have fun. 6 yr old teams around here are nothing more than organized playground teams...kids playing in the dirt, sitting in the outfield picking grass, fighting over who gets which popsicle after the game, etc I saw a friend's post on Facebook earlier this week and his kid plays 6U ball...score was like 38-37 and that was normal for the games in that age group. Your description of the coaches is spot on for all 6U coaches...they are really nothing more than babysitters on the field. They can tell/show one kid something and by the time they move on to the next kid, the previous kid is back to making dirt piles, chasing bugs, and eating grass.

If you want to make changes, volunteer to coach or be asst coach, run for a position on the board of directors at the park, etc. Work with your kid and help him get better. Let him come to you and ask to play...if he really wants to play travel ball, he'll ask you if he can play. You force him to play and you're living the life you want through him.

He asked me if we could play travel ball. Reference earlier post from fast XD there are some kids that want to be there want to learn and want to play baseball not be babysat and play in the dirt like they could at home as stated earlier my schedule does not allow me to be a head coach but I will be an assistant coach and assist when my schedule allows


Turkey’s tell you when they want to die not lawmakers.
Re: Travel baseball team [Re: bhammedic84] #2830229
06/15/19 11:02 AM
06/15/19 11:02 AM
Joined: Feb 2008
Posts: 15,647
Montgomery
bamaeyedoc Offline
Old Mossy Horns
bamaeyedoc  Offline
Old Mossy Horns
Joined: Feb 2008
Posts: 15,647
Montgomery
Sounds like to me you could accomplish your goal of teaching your kid the basics of baseball in the yard or at the local field. If you have a calling to coach, then go for it. At 6 years old a kid just wants to be with his buddies and play some ball. No reason to get too serious about it right now. Good luck with whatever you choose to do.

Dr. B


AKA: “Dr. B”
Aldeer #121
8-3-2000
Proud alum of AUM, UAB, and UA
Member of Team 10 Point
2023-2024 ALdeer Deer Contest Winners

Glennis Jerome "Jerry" Harris
1938-2017
UGA Class of 1960
BS/MS Forestry
LTJG, USNR



Re: Travel baseball team [Re: bamaeyedoc] #2830230
06/15/19 11:04 AM
06/15/19 11:04 AM
Joined: Apr 2018
Posts: 1,460
North of 459 South of 20
B
bhammedic84 Offline OP
8 point
bhammedic84  Offline OP
8 point
B
Joined: Apr 2018
Posts: 1,460
North of 459 South of 20
Originally Posted by bamaeyedoc
Sounds like to me you could accomplish your goal of teaching your kid the basics of baseball in the yard or at the local field. If you have a calling to coach, then go for it. At 6 years old a kid just wants to be with his buddies and play some ball. No reason to get too serious about it right now. Good luck with whatever you choose to do.

Dr. B

He wants to get serious he has stated that what he has learned as far as Fielding balls and running plays for first baseman he cannot do that at a park and rec level when the other kids stand around and do nothing


Turkey’s tell you when they want to die not lawmakers.
Page 2 of 6 1 2 3 4 5 6

Aldeer.com Copyright 2001-2023 Aldeer LLP.
Powered by UBB.threads™ PHP Forum Software 7.6.1.1
(Release build 20180111)
Page Time: 0.084s Queries: 16 (0.028s) Memory: 3.3045 MB (Peak: 3.6100 MB) Zlib disabled. Server Time: 2024-04-24 23:52:58 UTC